Premature ejaculation is a part of this lifestyle

Not sure honestly. When I do get a chance to fuck my wife, I would like to last longer than two seconds or at least get fully hard.
Same, my wife probably prefers that i'm on and off, quicker than longer, but I would like to have some control over when I cum, its more frustrating than people realise. If I don't jerk off, almost every other orgasm I have with her, is like a ruined one, and if the timing isn't right, its usually only a 5/10 orgasm for me and not at all for her, whereas with my own hand its rarely less than a 8.5/10.
 
Not sure honestly. When I do get a chance to fuck my wife, I would like to last longer than two seconds or at least get fully hard.

I can vouch for it being difficult to keep a balance. My wife still wants to have sex with just me occasionally and while i don't have the PE problem of OP, I do have a certain level of BBC-induced ED that keeps that from happening occasionally. She doesn't make it a big deal, but it's not a great feeling; despite me thinking it would/will be to not be able to get hard without big black cock
 
Not sure honestly. When I do get a chance to fuck my wife, I would like to last longer than two seconds or at least get fully hard.
I still get fully hard and my wife tells me to make sure when I’m jerking off in front of her that it gets fully hard so I will very much keep that in mind. It’s a balancing act I guess but so far I’m able to do what she wants my cock to do.
 
Since coming on here and fantasize about wife getting pleased by BBC I have become a premature ejaculator. Literally 30s currently. I think it's because I'm daily getting my fix and fantasising but only get her pussy once every couple of weeks.
She knows and likes to tease me I think. She sleeps nude and I always try and get a grab or look at her sexy ass or pussy.
She takes as normal I'm a quick cummer now. But can't help think she's frustrated
I’m in the exact same position my friend. Since coming to this website I have not lasted near as long as I used to. I’m very new to this type of fetish and my wife still doesn’t even know! I used to go for like 20-30 minutes...I lasted four minutes this morning😁😁😁
 
Since coming on here and fantasize about wife getting pleased by BBC I have become a premature ejaculator. Literally 30s currently. I think it's because I'm daily getting my fix and fantasising but only get her pussy once every couple of weeks.
She knows and likes to tease me I think. She sleeps nude and I always try and get a grab or look at her sexy ass or pussy.
She takes as normal I'm a quick cummer now. But can't help think she's frustrated
That's not good at all. :( And why do you "get her pussy" only "every couple of weeks"? ty
 
I’m in the exact same position my friend. Since coming to this website I have not lasted near as long as I used to. I’m very new to this type of fetish and my wife still doesn’t even know! I used to go for like 20-30 minutes...I lasted four minutes this morning😁😁😁
its definitely mental issue as seed is planted in head
 
I've heard it's a biological response to others having sex with your women. In terms of natural competition, the faster you can inseminate your mate, the better chances that she will have your offspring.
A more scientific reason is psychologically you are seeing your wife as a sexual object that other men want and are getting. You strip the love for her out of your emotions and you are left with pure lust.
 
its definitely mental issue as seed is planted in head
Absolutely...but knowing that she deserves something much bigger and better is what drives me. I am her one and only cock so she is completely ignorant right now to anything but my little dick. I’m going to buy a 6 inch dildo today and slowly introduce it into our sex life.
 
A more scientific reason is psychologically you are seeing your wife as a sexual object that other men want and are getting. You strip the love for her out of your emotions and you are left with pure lust.

I believe the psychology of it that you mentioned goes hand in hand with the biological purpose of quick ejactulation. For humans, sexual biology is highly paired with psychology.
 
I'm 23 and I've fantasized about getting cucked for years - but just a year or two ago I started having a lot of trouble getting or staying hard, and for the first time ever I've started premature ejaculating. It is very sexually frustrating but it is hot as well. It's what led my ex girlfriend to fuck her co-worker and it's really cemented in my mind that my girl and I really should get a bull.

It's humiliating getting ED and/or premature ejaculation in my 20s but I think it's hot.

I take it you cum to bbc porn all the time? Are you exclusive to bbc porn when you jerk off?
 
Absolutely...but knowing that she deserves something much bigger and better is what drives me. I am her one and only cock so she is completely ignorant right now to anything but my little dick. I’m going to buy a 6 inch dildo today and slowly introduce it into our sex life.
Fantastic how will you introduce- surprise her? Buy online? Which one?
 
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