Benjaminenn
Male
I recently had an interesting interaction while at a pool in Vegas and would love to hear other’s (most women, but everyone’s is appreciated) opinion/advice on.
Some background: my wife (26) and I (25) have been together for over 4 years, recently married. Our sex life is solid, sex multiple times a week, but it is fairly vanilla. We both have a pretty small number of sexual partners of 3-5. We have never opened up our relationship and I haven’t gotten the sense that she would like to. She is somewhat the jealous type, when bringing up my fantasy of a threesome with another girl, she essentially shuts it down right away. I have not directly asked about adding another guy to the bedroom. I have a feeling she would be interested, but would fear that’s my way of getting my fantasy realized. (This is not the case, while I would like to have a FFM threesome, it’s not a dealbreaker.) More than anything I would never want me wife to leave more just for a dick. I would much rather know about it, and be able to help her find one to play with than be cheated on.
Anyway, we were both chilling in our chairs, my wife laying on her chest tanning, giving me quite the view to enjoy while I sat up enjoying the sunny day. After an hour or two, most of the other people had left leaving the chairs around us empty. Then I noticed a couple of guys take the chairs behind us as they had just arrived. They unpacked their things and made their way to the pool and hung out in there for awhile (I assume, was not paying close attention to them at this point).
Eventually I saw the same guys leaving the pool, and one of them was wearing super tight shorts (I think they were actually boxers) and I could instantly tell he was packing quite a package from a distance. I tried not to look, but as he got closer I could tell he was about as big soft as I am hard which is about 6 inches and thick. He walked around us to the chairs behind us, and my wife who was scrolling on her phone (again, laying on her chest so she wouldn’t have seen him coming before) definitely noticed.
She was wearing sunglasses, so I could see her eyes from the side, while he wouldn’t have been able to tell where she was looking. She kept her head straight ahead, but I’m almost 100% positive she was staring at his dick. He was there for about 5 seconds, and I could tell her eyes didn’t return to her phone until he was gone. When he was out of sight, she sort of dropped her phone and held her hand out in a sort of “wow” gesture. All of this happened without her noticing that I was watching her.
This went on for a little while. I think the guy might have noticed her look because he did a few more walkbys, including one pretty egregiously turning his hips toward her while we shuffled between some pool chairs. He also spent quite a bit of time in the pool in front of us, standing up out of the water with his package on display, even rubbing it a little now and again.
At this point I’m not going to lie I was pretty worked up. I have a cuckold fantasy, but I am not sure if I want it to be a reality so I haven’t brought it up with my wife. However I certainly would be up for a threesome with another guy. This whole situation took place over an hour or two period. She never did end up flipping around, instead laying on her chest almost the entire day.
Eventually, I asked her if she liked what she saw. I didn’t point out the guy, i didn’t make any reference whatsoever, I was genuinely curious about what she thought. She seemed to know exactly what I was talking about, but also immediately got very defense and somewhat annoyed with me. I tried to reiterate I wasn’t accusing her of anything, or trying to start a fight, and that I just wanted to know. But she didn’t budge, and we sort of left it at that.
Eventually we left the pool and that ends the main story. However something else happened later that day that could possibly add some more important context. We were having dinner and trying to figure out what to do for the rest of the day. I mentioned we could go to a sex shop and get her a dildo that’s at least a little bit bigger than I am. (We have discussed before, my favorite genre of porn is amateur girls riding dildos, and we’ve been intending to get her one anyway). She seemed a little reluctant and asked what do you mean bigger, and I said well it’s “whatever you’d want, it could be a bit thicker and/or longer than what I give you”. She said she wasn’t sure on longer but thicker could be nice. I thought cool, can’t wait.
We ended up doing too much gambling and drinking to make it to the sex shop, but we did have AMAZING sex later. I couldn’t help but feel like this may have been inspired by our friend at the pool..
So anyway, no real great conclusion to the story, but I have a few questions for anyone who read the whole thing (thanks btw):
1) can you tell one way or the other from this story if my wife might be interested in a bigger dick? Is this just a natural thing for women to look and enjoy, even if they don’t necessarily “want” it?
2) is there a better way for me to bring this situation up again? I know I want to talk about it more, I haven’t brought it up since the pool when she shut it down
3) (bonus question) should I surprise her with a dildo, or should I let her make that decision.. she’s been procrastinating getting one for a few weeks at least
Some background: my wife (26) and I (25) have been together for over 4 years, recently married. Our sex life is solid, sex multiple times a week, but it is fairly vanilla. We both have a pretty small number of sexual partners of 3-5. We have never opened up our relationship and I haven’t gotten the sense that she would like to. She is somewhat the jealous type, when bringing up my fantasy of a threesome with another girl, she essentially shuts it down right away. I have not directly asked about adding another guy to the bedroom. I have a feeling she would be interested, but would fear that’s my way of getting my fantasy realized. (This is not the case, while I would like to have a FFM threesome, it’s not a dealbreaker.) More than anything I would never want me wife to leave more just for a dick. I would much rather know about it, and be able to help her find one to play with than be cheated on.
Anyway, we were both chilling in our chairs, my wife laying on her chest tanning, giving me quite the view to enjoy while I sat up enjoying the sunny day. After an hour or two, most of the other people had left leaving the chairs around us empty. Then I noticed a couple of guys take the chairs behind us as they had just arrived. They unpacked their things and made their way to the pool and hung out in there for awhile (I assume, was not paying close attention to them at this point).
Eventually I saw the same guys leaving the pool, and one of them was wearing super tight shorts (I think they were actually boxers) and I could instantly tell he was packing quite a package from a distance. I tried not to look, but as he got closer I could tell he was about as big soft as I am hard which is about 6 inches and thick. He walked around us to the chairs behind us, and my wife who was scrolling on her phone (again, laying on her chest so she wouldn’t have seen him coming before) definitely noticed.
She was wearing sunglasses, so I could see her eyes from the side, while he wouldn’t have been able to tell where she was looking. She kept her head straight ahead, but I’m almost 100% positive she was staring at his dick. He was there for about 5 seconds, and I could tell her eyes didn’t return to her phone until he was gone. When he was out of sight, she sort of dropped her phone and held her hand out in a sort of “wow” gesture. All of this happened without her noticing that I was watching her.
This went on for a little while. I think the guy might have noticed her look because he did a few more walkbys, including one pretty egregiously turning his hips toward her while we shuffled between some pool chairs. He also spent quite a bit of time in the pool in front of us, standing up out of the water with his package on display, even rubbing it a little now and again.
At this point I’m not going to lie I was pretty worked up. I have a cuckold fantasy, but I am not sure if I want it to be a reality so I haven’t brought it up with my wife. However I certainly would be up for a threesome with another guy. This whole situation took place over an hour or two period. She never did end up flipping around, instead laying on her chest almost the entire day.
Eventually, I asked her if she liked what she saw. I didn’t point out the guy, i didn’t make any reference whatsoever, I was genuinely curious about what she thought. She seemed to know exactly what I was talking about, but also immediately got very defense and somewhat annoyed with me. I tried to reiterate I wasn’t accusing her of anything, or trying to start a fight, and that I just wanted to know. But she didn’t budge, and we sort of left it at that.
Eventually we left the pool and that ends the main story. However something else happened later that day that could possibly add some more important context. We were having dinner and trying to figure out what to do for the rest of the day. I mentioned we could go to a sex shop and get her a dildo that’s at least a little bit bigger than I am. (We have discussed before, my favorite genre of porn is amateur girls riding dildos, and we’ve been intending to get her one anyway). She seemed a little reluctant and asked what do you mean bigger, and I said well it’s “whatever you’d want, it could be a bit thicker and/or longer than what I give you”. She said she wasn’t sure on longer but thicker could be nice. I thought cool, can’t wait.
We ended up doing too much gambling and drinking to make it to the sex shop, but we did have AMAZING sex later. I couldn’t help but feel like this may have been inspired by our friend at the pool..
So anyway, no real great conclusion to the story, but I have a few questions for anyone who read the whole thing (thanks btw):
1) can you tell one way or the other from this story if my wife might be interested in a bigger dick? Is this just a natural thing for women to look and enjoy, even if they don’t necessarily “want” it?
2) is there a better way for me to bring this situation up again? I know I want to talk about it more, I haven’t brought it up since the pool when she shut it down
3) (bonus question) should I surprise her with a dildo, or should I let her make that decision.. she’s been procrastinating getting one for a few weeks at least
