Origin Stories

[GVLBottom]

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot recently…

For the established hotwife relationships;
Did you start your current relationship with the intent or agreement of sharing on day 1 or did you start as a monogamous couple and enter in later?

I see posts from single men often asking to find a women to cuckold them, but to me that seems backwards. It seems as if it would be more fulfilling (albeit more challenging) to establish a relationship and introduce the lifestyle. It almost seems like there are men that want a shortcut. To me, the idea of slowly working towards the goal of getting a girl more and more comfortable and seeing her “milestones” in the journey would be a more special experience. I could be wrong but that seems like more fun for the wife too.

What are your thoughts and stories?

 

[Mrhowcani]

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot recently…

For the established hotwife relationships;
Did you start your current relationship with the intent or agreement of sharing on day 1 or did you start as a monogamous couple and enter in later?

I see posts from single men often asking to find a women to cuckold them, but to me that seems backwards. It seems as if it would be more fulfilling (albeit more challenging) to establish a relationship and introduce the lifestyle. It almost seems like there are men that want a shortcut. To me, the idea of slowly working towards the goal of getting a girl more and more comfortable and seeing her “milestones” in the journey would be a more special experience. I could be wrong but that seems like more fun for the wife too.

What are your thoughts and stories?

Actually you hit the proverbial nail on the head. In my experience over there years this is a question I ask couples that I have met and played with to just couples I chat with. "How did you two start in the lifestyle?" 9 times out of 10 it's a fantasy to start with, talking about it during sex a type of role play. Over time it evolves generally adding porn to help give a visual or physical aspect of said fantasy. While this is not the only way it happens there are many different avenues to the lifestyle becoming reality.

I agree there is a shortcut being looked for by simply posting I'm looking for a woman to cuck you. There is no proper cucking if there is no emotional base established. Try building a skyscraper on a soft sand base and see what happens. Solid foundation is key to any good structure physical or not.

 

[oldguyohio]

Wit us it started as fantasy, mostly on my part, had a friend who had a thing for Lynn and always flirted with her and it was hot as hell thinking about them together when Lynn and I were making love

 

[Mrhowcani]

Wit us it started as fantasy, mostly on my part, had a friend who had a thing for Lynn and always flirted with her and it was hot as hell thinking about them together when Lynn and I were making love

Did it ever happen?

 

[oldguyohio]

Did it ever happen?

yeah a night out at the dance club, when we got back to our place he got a bit more handsy with her than usual and much to our surprise she responded, of course she'd had lots to ******* that night lol

 

[Mrhowcani]

yeah a night out at the dance club, when we got back to our place he got a bit more handsy with her than usual and much to our surprise she responded, of course she'd had lots to ******* that night lol

Awesome you three still hang out

 

[oldguyohio]

Awesome you three still hang out

yes it's a long term thing, 21 years now

 

[Mrhowcani]

yes it's a long term thing, 21 years now

Love it nothing more eroticel than being or having a friend to fuck the Mrs. A real friend.

 

[oldguyohio]

Love it nothing more eroticel than being or having a friend to fuck the Mrs. A real friend.

I totally agree, he's been a good friend for years going back to our days in the Army

 

[Mrhowcani]

I totally agree, he's been a good friend for years going back to our days in the Army

Nice Army Here as well