Open discussion for all: Newer couples to lifestyle

[BBCJay85]

Are you a newer couple to the lifestyle and want to be eased into it? What's your expectations?

 

[TDoggle]

We're still learning and not sure what to expect to be honest!

Part of the fantasy content (BNWO etc) is scary and off-putting to us. But yet we still have an incredible shared drive to value BBC and the pleasure it gives her.

 

[2crazypeepz]

Good times, no drama, and both of us enjoy ourselves

 

[Mlgh]

We are new to the lifestyle and my wife has not taken the final step. Still at the fantasy stage of things.

 

[Loridan]

We've been into mfm fun with a guy we know for 5 years off and on. Very infrequently at first.
We're not pros at this, we aren't swingers. We are comfy with out friend but it's still weird and awkward for me, much less so for my wife.
While we're messing around with him, can be 3 or 4 hours, it's incredibly exciting but after we both have...what have we done...feelings.