If a husband and wife don't love one another enough to have a baby as a couple, how are they going to survive brining a third party into the bedroom?
We've had many thoughts on the "breeding" fantasy stuff. Our conclusion has generally been just that; fantasy. Many couples claim to be into breeding on social media and forums when there's anonymity or zero accountability. On the contrary, when talking to real couples, pregnancy scares seem to be very real and unwelcome.
In our case, wifey can't take birth control since we're actively trying to get pregnant. We make it clear to the gentlemen whose paths we cross; condoms are a definite yes, 100% of the time. Even with condoms, cumming inside of her isn't an option, it's just not a risk we're willing to take. Some guys are cool with that; some don't like it but deal with it; some are completely put off by it.
We're willing to open our marriage and our bed; respecting our desires and keeping expectations real shouldn't too much to ask!