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I agree with you, but this site has many men and women who love the dominance, cuckold, obedience, submissive, owned, owed, mentality of their sexual preferences of which although I don’t agree. I do like to read and look at the way they perceive this. It find it fascinating to me how people react so differently towards sex in any way you look at it. To each his own is the epitome of this kind of sexual preferences.So my husband and I share this account. We both talk on here sometimes together and sometimes separately as well. A little about us first: We are a happily married couple, who enjoy this lifestyle but don't share in the humiliation aspect of it. I do enjoy the fact he supports my lust for BBC. Something I enjoyed in college and now have the opportunity again while married to him. Obviously, not the typical cuckold situation.
I have made an observation and come to this conclusion (and I know this will be an unpopular statement but it is my own personal opinion):
So during our conversation with various BBC men in this lifestyle, some on this site and some off the site as well, it appears their are two kinds of men:
A: The BBCs who go about this with the attitude that they are OWED something by white husbands and should be allowed to fuck their wives.
B: The BBCs who go about this with the attitude that they are grateful to be involved and be the lover of the white wife who enjoys satisfying her lust for BBC.
Nothing turns me, well us off more than someone who is obnoxious and arrogant about this and thinks they are owed this. Not sure why there needs to be this mentality. I mean, I understand some people, and by people I mean couples who enjoy that type of relationship, more power to you.
I do this because I enjoy it and hubby does as well and it adds to our already great relationship. But I don't think that allowing myself to be something that is "OWED" to another person doesn't sit well with me. Like I said, I know there are other trains of thought for other couples and that is fine.
I really do love the taboo that it entails, the fact that all the men I meet have bigger cocks then my husband and the fact the in my opinion, BBCs almost certainly excude a raw, ******* type of fucking that I also enjoy.
Some guys can get downright ugly about this being owed attitude when you talk to them. I just feel it needn't be that way and the old adage that "you get more bees with honey then you do with *******".
Just the logic of thinking that you are owed this is severely unattractive to wanting to meet someone in my opinion.
Thoughts?
I agree with you, but this site has many men and women who love the dominance, cuckold, obedience, submissive, owned, owed, mentality of their sexual preferences of which although I don’t agree. I do like to read and look at the way they perceive this. It find it fascinating to me how people react so differently towards sex in any way you look at it. To each his own is the epitome of this kind of sexual preferences.
Agreed that’s why we have the “ignore” buttonWhile that could certainly be true for some as I said, why does it seem some BBCs insist on being aggressive about it in that fashion? If it does not interest me, then let it go. It seems more that this is the way of certain BBC men and they think we should all be that way they want us to be. I don't play that game. Nothing about me or my demeanor says I owe anyone anything or want to be owned.
Just my personal opinion...
I was wondering if I was Crazy............thank U Mightily for saying such. I can respect the wishes of those who prefer the domination aspect, however I’m just not that much of an asshole when supplied with willing pussy. On some player-type *******, it is actually counter-intuitive to disrespect a man who Willingly shares his wife. That guy deserves a beer, a ******* or a smoke AT LEAST Kudos 2 the White MEN (not bois) & WOMEN for going wayyyy further than ole “ Honest Abe” in truly improving race “Relations “.So my husband and I share this account. We both talk on here sometimes together and sometimes separately as well. A little about us first: We are a happily married couple, who enjoy this lifestyle but don't share in the humiliation aspect of it. I do enjoy the fact he supports my lust for BBC. Something I enjoyed in college and now have the opportunity again while married to him. Obviously, not the typical cuckold situation.
I have made an observation and come to this conclusion (and I know this will be an unpopular statement but it is my own personal opinion):
So during our conversation with various BBC men in this lifestyle, some on this site and some off the site as well, it appears their are two kinds of men:
A: The BBCs who go about this with the attitude that they are OWED something by white husbands and should be allowed to fuck their wives.
B: The BBCs who go about this with the attitude that they are grateful to be involved and be the lover of the white wife who enjoys satisfying her lust for BBC.
Nothing turns me, well us off more than someone who is obnoxious and arrogant about this and thinks they are owed this. Not sure why there needs to be this mentality. I mean, I understand some people, and by people I mean couples who enjoy that type of relationship, more power to you.
I do this because I enjoy it and hubby does as well and it adds to our already great relationship. But I don't think that allowing myself to be something that is "OWED" to another person doesn't sit well with me. Like I said, I know there are other trains of thought for other couples and that is fine.
I really do love the taboo that it entails, the fact that all the men I meet have bigger cocks then my husband and the fact the in my opinion, BBCs almost certainly excude a raw, ******* type of fucking that I also enjoy.
Some guys can get downright ugly about this being owed attitude when you talk to them. I just feel it needn't be that way and the old adage that "you get more bees with honey then you do with *******".
Just the logic of thinking that you are owed this is severely unattractive to wanting to meet someone in my opinion.
Thoughts?
I believe porn and most white husbands make it that way, but I aim to please so if the woman are looking for dominance that I will be if she wants me to be gentle and loving ( my favorite part ) that what I'm gonna be... I prefer the to be gentle and loving if you know what I mean...While that could certainly be true for some as I said, why does it seem some BBCs insist on being aggressive about it in that fashion? If it does not interest me, then let it go. It seems more that this is the way of certain BBC men and they think we should all be that way they want us to be. I don't play that game. Nothing about me or my demeanor says I owe anyone anything or want to be owned.
Just my personal opinion...
Not all but most that I have spoken too...I can assure you, my white husband doesn't agree with that . But yes PORN is ridiculous when it comes to how people are treated.