Not into humiliation

[FilthyAsFuck]

So, I'm not into humiliation or being made to feel 'lesser' or worthless. I can enjoy it in porn, but in real life I don't think it's for me.

However, I am totally into the black on white aesthetic, the look of a white girl taking on BBC, the tease and denial aspect and, importantly, being with a woman who unapologetically takes charge of her own desires.

Totally a voyeur and a lover of slutty behaviour .

I don't think I'm totally a 'stag' either, as that invokes an element of wanting to control

So I'm not sure what I am.

Does anyone else relate to this?

 

[sub2femdom]

I enjoy a lot of the cuckold play, but I see it more as a type of play, not a lifestyle. I enjoy the media but some of the stuff, especially the bnwo and radical humiliation is far too extreme for me.

For instance with chastity, I could see being locked up for a few hours, days even, but chastity really boils down to tease and denial along with edge play, so the release is the eventual payoff. I couldn't imagine never getting out or never being allowed to penetrate a woman again, that's just nuts to me. And I REALLY enjoy chastity play.

For your situation FaF, I agree with mrmrsfun that Hotwife Couple is probably the best simple description.

 

[JohnEE]

So, I'm not into humiliation or being made to feel 'lesser' or worthless. I can enjoy it in porn, but in real life I don't think it's for me.

However, I am totally into the black on white aesthetic, the look of a white girl taking on BBC, the tease and denial aspect and, importantly, being with a woman who unapologetically takes charge of her own desires.

Totally a voyeur and a lover of slutty behaviour .

I don't think I'm totally a 'stag' either, as that invokes an element of wanting to control

So I'm not sure what I am.

Does anyone else relate to this?

Don't try to put a label on whatever you think you are..
Just go with it.

 

[cdyson]

Yep, totally get where you're coming from. 100% not into humiliation or dom/sub play. I'm more of a stag but it's not so much about control as sharing control. Like JohnEE suggested - labels are imperfect.

 

[NYFLBiCouple]

Yep, totally get where you're coming from. 100% not into humiliation or dom/sub play. I'm more of a stag but it's not so much about control as sharing control. Like JohnEE suggested - labels are imperfect.

Exactly, me and my girl have an amazing sex life together; we just like being secret sexual deviants together...anyone comes to us thinking they're going to humiliate anyone would bring an end to everything immediately lol

 

[Bigbear469]

I am not into a lot of humiliation. However I do have that side of seeing my wife with a strong confident big black bull. To see her submitting to him more than she would me and to see her body accepting a BBC in her pale mature married pussy…priceless. Love helping hold her legs out, guiding him in and cleaning her up and would like to see what prepping him and cleaning him would be like. Don’t want her to go off on her own. My turn on is seeing the contrast of his dark skin against her pale body and her submitting to him in front of me.

 

[Subman312]

Having been introduced to BDSM and Female Domination as a teen, by a teacher who lived next door to my parents, my brain has been more or less "hard-wired" to associate humiliation with arousal......I often crave humiliation......I spent a lot of years searching out Dominant Women to satisfy my craving......when my Wife/Mistress (we had been in a M/s relationship, 24/7, for about 10 years when She decided to step up my humiliation by cuckolding me with a former coworker of Hers.......She knew that She could eventually persuade me to submitting to Him too......since then, I have submitted to lots of Black Men.....it's just the way my mind has been "programmed"......I have no resistance......no ability to tell a Black Man "no"......I have accepted Black ownership......it's not for everyone, but some of us have just been indoctrinated to give up our freedom of choice.....that's just the way it is...

 

[cukhubby]

I am not into a lot of humiliation. However I do have that side of seeing my wife with a strong confident big black bull. To see her submitting to him more than she would me and to see her body accepting a BBC in her pale mature married pussy…priceless. Love helping hold her legs out, guiding him in and cleaning her up and would like to see what prepping him and cleaning him would be like. Don’t want her to go off on her own. My turn on is seeing the contrast of his dark skin against her pale body and her submitting to him in front of me.

Well put.

 

[sdcoupleforbbc]

Yeah also we are not into it, it's a total turn off for us. For us is a kinky, sexy time of adult fun.

 

[JJSMITHY54321]

Exactly, me and my girl have an amazing sex life together; we just like being secret sexual deviants together...anyone comes to us thinking they're going to humiliate anyone would bring an end to everything immediately lol

Agree ... I love my hubby and his unconditional support of me in this lifestyle.