you think?
not going to happen..failed
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guess what?? no sex this weekend
we did wife swap, about ten years ago
That's pretty direct to go for. From reading your posts it sounds like she enjoys sex and roleplay with you so it's not surprising she got offended. She probably at that point didn't take it as a sexual item but as of you asking if she wanted to have sex with someone as if you weren't enough. She might just not be into this as anything more than roleplay but with her reaction don't expect sex or roleplay for awhile.
i guess your right
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One of the traps wannabe husbands fall into is that they don't think about is why their wives react badly.
Some thoughts on why: They believe that you don't love them anymore; that your wife is not attractive to you; that you only want her to do it so you can fuck around; how it will affect your relationship - will you get jealous, envious and leave her -will she fall in love with her bull?
IMO you need to have a honest conversation with your wife and not let it go without comment for any long. I think an apology to start and then ask her why she was offended seeing she watches interracial fuck films with you
Some thoughts on why: They believe that you don't love them anymore; that your wife is not attractive to you; that you only want her to do it so you can fuck around; how it will affect your relationship - will you get jealous, envious and leave her -will she fall in love with her bull?
IMO you need to have a honest conversation with your wife and not let it go without comment for any long. I think an apology to start and then ask her why she was offended seeing she watches interracial fuck films with you
My wife, and I imagine most wives/gf are shocked and say no way at first. Once the shock wears off....and you take your time.....she will get into it. I finally worked up the nerve to tell my wife in January. We went from "no way" to among other things her telling me she luvs black cock, and to fuck her married white pussy while we fantasize together. She cums longer and harder than I think she ever has while we fantasize......keep it up, but dont put too much pressure on her.....she will cum around 
lol... thanks hun
Think of it this way. What if your wife suddenly tells you she wants to see you have sex with another man? How would you react? What if she kept pushing you to try it? Would you get upset about it?
Watching 2 guys have sex is a huge turn on for my wife. I was shocked when she first told me she wants to see me with another guy. She loves gay and bi porn. I'll watch it with her but it does not mean I would ever consider doing it. I will get pissed at her if she trys to push me to do it.
It's the same situation as a husband pushing his wife to fuck a black guy.
Yeah I guess you're right but In the Heat of the Moment anything can happen years ago we wife swapped this is before we were married and it was pretty hot who knows like I said anything can happen
There is a lot of great advice here. It would behoove you to not only read it but go back and read it again. You stated that years ago you wife swapped. Have you done any more wife swapping since then? If not you are blessed your wife didn't smack your face when you said you wanted to see her with a Black man. You are going to have to step back and not bring it up for awhile. Still watch the IR porn and all. But honestly if you get any sex in the next month this is a good sign.
Women tend to react negatively when presented with "Hey, baby, I want or would like to see you fuck another man/a Black man/ or even a woman." Mainly the reason for that is we are caught off guard. We aren't usually even thinking that way.
I know from personal experience it took time for me to get from wife swapping to fucking Black men. Now onceI got started fucking Black men, I went hog wild. lol I love it and can't get enough.... Your wife may not be that way.
Think of it this way, when you met your wife before she was your wife, did you immediately ask her to marry you and make her your wife? No, it took time and it took listening to her and "wooing" her. The same thing happens with being with other men. It takes time it takes a delicate hand and it takes you listening to what she wants and desires....not just in the heat of the moment but in the light of day as well. This is something that you may have to put on the back burner for awhile and come back to. But the best advice I can give you is, listen to your wife and I mean really listen. Ask her what her concerns are and why she thinks the way she does. You both need to do what is best for the both of you, not just for you or for her....you all are in this together.
Women tend to react negatively when presented with "Hey, baby, I want or would like to see you fuck another man/a Black man/ or even a woman." Mainly the reason for that is we are caught off guard. We aren't usually even thinking that way.
I know from personal experience it took time for me to get from wife swapping to fucking Black men. Now onceI got started fucking Black men, I went hog wild. lol I love it and can't get enough.... Your wife may not be that way.
Think of it this way, when you met your wife before she was your wife, did you immediately ask her to marry you and make her your wife? No, it took time and it took listening to her and "wooing" her. The same thing happens with being with other men. It takes time it takes a delicate hand and it takes you listening to what she wants and desires....not just in the heat of the moment but in the light of day as well. This is something that you may have to put on the back burner for awhile and come back to. But the best advice I can give you is, listen to your wife and I mean really listen. Ask her what her concerns are and why she thinks the way she does. You both need to do what is best for the both of you, not just for you or for her....you all are in this together.
Thank you for the kind advice I'm going to have to listen to you and just not bring it up for a while we've had sex since and we were watching interracial videos I did not bring it up neither did she
Some wives aren't into those type of fantasies.
Just because it is your interest...doesn't mean it is hers. Alot of women, when horny, will role play but won't actually act on it. If she really wanted it, and seeing you are encoraging her, she would go forward with it. But pushing her into it may lead to issues for both of you.
Personally, I love BBC...best step I ever took. But thats me.
Continue to watch interracial porn, if and when she is ready...it will happen. forsing the issue is only going to cause problems.
Personally, I love BBC...best step I ever took. But thats me.
Continue to watch interracial porn, if and when she is ready...it will happen. forsing the issue is only going to cause problems.
See, guys let this be a lesson to you all...you WANT to marry the slut who slept with the entire football team.
That will guarantee you'll have a slut for life
That will guarantee you'll have a slut for life
For my wife it was the basketball team. She still has the fantasy of taking on an entire NBA team at once.See, guys let this be a lesson to you all...you WANT to marry the slut who slept with the entire football team.
That will guarantee you'll have a slut for life
I agree, marry a slut!
I was trying to fuck all the sexy cheerleaders, 2 or 3 at a time
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