Hello fellow members. We are a long time dating couple, new to the site and to this lifestyle. I'm posting to pose a newbie question to all of you. My gf is very open to me about her fantasy of being with a black man but is freaked out about actually acting on it (even tough I am okay with it) out of fear of what it might do to our relationship. I'm assuming this is a common fear? But is it something that we can work past or is it just better for her to keep it as a fantasy rather than make it a reality? Thanks in advance for the any replies.


As long as there is trust between you both and you can live with the fact that your wife is having a great time sexually with another man then it's not an issue. The lines are often blurred between having sex and loving someone.