New here Trying to Push the Wife

Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
 
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Hello!
We are a married couple, 34 and I'm 41, and have been doing this since the summer of 2020. My wife is 5'1" about 105 pounds and she is cute and sassy, which causes most people to instantly like her. This was my idea (I THINK!) but we took small steps in the beginning and didn't just jump into something. Please, tell me something about your wife, thinks that you want me to know. I'll be happy to offer suggestions. Hope this works out for you and that you two get as much pleasure as we have!
 
Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
I'm interested.
 
Hello!
We are a married couple, 34 and I'm 41, and have been doing this since the summer of 2020. My wife is 5'1" about 105 pounds and she is cute and sassy, which causes most people to instantly like her. This was my idea (I THINK!) but we took small steps in the beginning and didn't just jump into something. Please, tell me something about your wife, thinks that you want me to know. I'll be happy to offer suggestions. Hope this works out for you and that you two get as much pleasure as we have!
Sure I will PM you
 
Enjoy the little step by step discovery let her build excitement for it

you guys must feed off of each other pleasure if not that it will be a recipe for disaster
VERY true! This HAS to be a couples thing, with both happy and content with what they do. With my wife and I, black friends who fuck her are friends (after, if not before they fuck her!) but they are still outside the loop. She and I will continue as a couple, but, sooner or later, they will drop to the side. That is as it should be if it's a healthy relationship
 
VERY true! This HAS to be a couples thing, with both happy and content with what they do. With my wife and I, black friends who fuck her are friends (after, if not before they fuck her!) but they are still outside the loop. She and I will continue as a couple, but, sooner or later, they will drop to the side. That is as it should be if it's a healthy relationship
Just always talk to each other like seriously say it all the intense the good the bad the scary the anxiety hear each other out constantly to never loose sight of one another or make something that turn out of control
 
EXCELLENT advice! Things like that are the cement which holds a couple together. Even, or especially, if he has fucked her like a stud should fuck a woman, as soon as he is done she wants me to hold and comfort her. That increases her confidence AND her pleasure from getting a very hard black dick. Al three of us win in this situation.
 
Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
Make sure you update us. This is how my wife got started. The interest is there, which then becomes curiosity then becomes reality. Hang in there, slow and steady, you’ll make it. That’s how I did it!
 
Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
Good luck .. don't push or rush your lovely lady ... and make sure you are fully ready to see her impaled on another mans cock and her first orgasm .. which you will remember for the rest of your life ... if you feel jealous, remember she would not dreamed of doing this without your encouragement .. get this right you guys will have a lot of fun!
 
you need to start licking your cum from her pussy after you have fucked her - then say I am fantsizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. Also suck her tit like a cock then tell her that you are fantasizing about sucking a cock after he has fucked her.
 
From a female point of view i would advise "don't push" It sounds like she's headed in the right direction. Think, how do you respond to being pushed into anything. Most have feelings best left out of a relationship. If anything goes wrong it will be remembered you pushed me into that. The lifestyle only works well if every person involved is into it on their own free will. That includes the extra men brought into the mix, i say men i hate that term bull. Their understanding of the lifestyle is a important part of making it work without difficulty.
 
Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
You are doing great. Just take it slow, both for yourself and also for your wife. Both need to understand it well. It can be a very happy erotic long journey. All the best.
 
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In the fantasy talk in bed …talk of “deep inside no condoms “…. “Feeling him release warmly deep inside you “….” Holding his dark body “ …” he’s so fertile and he’s cuming so deep inside you “ all of these made her cum just said at the right time …. Also fantasize about her with him all alone while your at work …. Tell her it’s ok then use those lines … my wife would be soaking wet … a wet pussy never lies ….it was only a matter of time after that talk and my shy cute wife couldn’t resist any longer …. Take your time snd fantasy talk while having sex.
 
Hi Im Pamela,dont push too hard just entice her and let her fantasize in her own mind.Talk playfully about her hooking up with black studs and bring home interracial movies of wives making love to fine black men.Just take your time like my husband did and tell her you want her to experience real pleasure!
 
Hello new to the site.
Have had serious discussions with the wife about starting her hotwife lifestyle.
She is definitely interested but nervous at the same time and been pushing it off to get started.
Maybe eventually when she is fully on board we will get verified and really start having some fun on here.

Don't want interfere with all the verified members deep into the lifestyle, so if anyone wants to chat about my wife PM me.

My wife is 30, fit body with decent curves
Don't push your wife discuss and let it happen naturally.....the two of you will know when its time/right
 
How do you get your wife into it, my wife is quite prudish but I love the thought of her riding a big cock, she said she would never do it, she doesn't like the thought of being used but I think she would love to get a big cock, we bought a 10 inch dildo and she took it all and I'm only 4 inches
 
How do you get your wife into it, my wife is quite prudish but I love the thought of her riding a big cock, she said she would never do it, she doesn't like the thought of being used but I think she would love to get a big cock, we bought a 10 inch dildo and she took it all and I'm only 4 inches
talk smut to her while you are fucking her with that big toy then lick her pussy after you have fucked her. Yes lick your cum from her pussy.
Later hold her and tell her that you love her and it is ok to have kinky sex.
 
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