Need input from the wives! Keeping wife active…

[Crazytrain]

Life can get busy. My wife loves having a bull or two but sometimes life/work/family interrupt a steady streak and then she’ll lose her interest for what might be months.

Need advice from wives who have similar ups and downs. What specifically changes you from a lull or not very interested space to a mindset that is again engaged and interested in hotwifing?

it’s completely up to my wife but I want to facilitate her interest without being pushy etc

 

[dickhurtz472]

great question. my wife's interest varied from intense to not interested & everywhere in between.

 

[The Arranger]

It’s called Planning. Yes book time in your calendar. Yes used codes like business trip with wife to visit clients. Special clothes.

 

[LucyandEddy]

That one's dead easy. Romance your wife. Busy lives also interrupt the romance portion of the marriage and for most women, that's the kickstarter to libido whether it be with you or with someone else