Need help taking 1st step into lifestyle..

mw29

mw29

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Please help...
Any good ideas or advise would be a greatly appreciated as I want my white wife of almost 12 years to spread her legs and try another man for a 1st time a Black cock with my total encouragement and full support. I am torn between coming clean and telling her (which I think would ruin the possibility because of the weird shock factor ) or try manipulating her and working with a black man by chance meeting in a bar lounge to start the process more smoothly.

To understand my situation and where I am at this point, please read my "about" page under my profile.. I truly welcome any advise that could help lead her to spread her legs for a black man and us venture into this lifestyle here in the NJ area ..
 
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mw29 said:
Please help...
Any good ideas or advise would be a greatly appreciated as I want my white wife of almost 12 years to spread her legs and try another man for a 1st time a Black cock with my total encouragement and full support. I am torn between coming clean and telling her (which I think would ruin the possibility because of the weird shock factor ) or try manipulating her and working with a black man by chance meeting in a bar lounge to start the process more smoothly.

To understand my situation and where I am at this point, please read my "about" page under my profile.. I truly welcome any advise that could help lead her to spread her legs for a black man and us venture into this lifestyle here in the NJ area ..
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Wine and porn!

Remember this rule "A ******* never lies"!

1.Does your wife *******? If so you will need to get her *******.
2.Do you guys ever watch porn? If so you are going to need to put on porn with women who look like her taking a big bbc.

Most ideal scenario is take her out for a date night get her ******* then take her home for some hanky panky. Once home keep the drinks flowing and put on interracial porn with women that look a similar to her as possible. While having sex ask her:
1. What do you think about her (the white women in the video) taking that big cock? If she says its sexy then ask question 2.
2. Do you think you could handle a big cock like that? If she says yes or at least I don't know or maybe, then ask 3.
3. If it was a huge sexy fantasy of mine to see you try to take a big black cock like that, would you try it for me? Her answer here while ******* will determine if you have a chance or not?


.If you guys don't watch porn then you can get her ******* and supplement the porn for a naughty surprise of a 8" black dildo!

Good luck!
 
mw29 said:
Possibilities?
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first she will be fucking other men and they will know that you knw and so will their friends and others. Your wife will realize that she can rule you and fuck whoever she wants and do as she pleases. You will be kissing her after she has sucked them and she will smell like her bulls after they fuck her. You will wonder who knows and if your wife tells her friends, the list of changes is long
 
Jdingo619 said:
Wine and porn!

Remember this rule "A ******* never lies"!

1.Does your wife *******? If so you will need to get her *******.
2.Do you guys ever watch porn? If so you are going to need to put on porn with women who look like her taking a big bbc.

Most ideal scenario is take her out for a date night get her ******* then take her home for some hanky panky. Once home keep the drinks flowing and put on interracial porn with women that look a similar to her as possible. While having sex ask her:
1. What do you think about her (the white women in the video) taking that big cock? If she says its sexy then ask question 2.
2. Do you think you could handle a big cock like that? If she says yes or at least I don't know or maybe, then ask 3.
3. If it was a huge sexy fantasy of mine to see you try to take a big black cock like that, would you try it for me? Her answer here while ******* will determine if you have a chance or not?


.If you guys don't watch porn then you can get her ******* and supplement the porn for a naughty surprise of a 8" black dildo!

Good luck!
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It's crazy my wife didn't even need to be ******* she just came around in time with getting dildos and ir porn and she made her own mind up and she liked . Making me chuckle reading the IR porn part. I use to think when people told me that advice I was like no way my wife would ever watch that . Now she watches it with me all the time and loves it and my fantasy is hers now too I came a long way ! We maxed out our the fantasy the only thing to make it next level would be making it a reality but we have to think long and hard about that it's a big decision
 
If you can't discuss sex with your wife you aren't cut out for the lifestyle. If you both have been monogamous for 12 years I wouldn't start out by asking her if she would like to fuck a well hung Black man. Any sudden changes in your attitude in the bedroom she may well interpret as as indication of your desire for new pussy or she my suspect you are cheating. She may well be satisfied with your bedroom performance. But if she isn't she probably already has gotten laid someplace else. If she is intoxicated you might ask her if she is happy sexually, is there is anything sexually she hasn't done but would like to do? Just ask one or two questions along this line, don't turn it into an interrogation. Most women fantasize about someone else from time to time. Whatever she tells you be supportive. More than likely later on, the next day or so she will broach the subject. You need to assure her that you are happy with what you are getting, but are concerned that she may be missing out. Let her know that you support her choice whatever it may be. Remember to tread lightly, her body is hers, who she shares it with is up to her. You push too hard and she won't be sharing it with you
 
Torpedo said:
If you can't discuss sex with your wife you aren't cut out for the lifestyle. If you both have been monogamous for 12 years I wouldn't start out by asking her if she would like to fuck a well hung Black man. Any sudden changes in your attitude in the bedroom she may well interpret as as indication of your desire for new pussy or she my suspect you are cheating. She may well be satisfied with your bedroom performance. But if she isn't she probably already has gotten laid someplace else. If she is intoxicated you might ask her if she is happy sexually, is there is anything sexually she hasn't done but would like to do? Just ask one or two questions along this line, don't turn it into an interrogation. Most women fantasize about someone else from time to time. Whatever she tells you be supportive. More than likely later on, the next day or so she will broach the subject. You need to assure her that you are happy with what you are getting, but are concerned that she may be missing out. Let her know that you support her choice whatever it may be. Remember to tread lightly, her body is hers, who she shares it with is up to her. You push too hard and she won't be sharing it with you
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Great thoughts advise
 
mw29 said:
Please help...
Any good ideas or advise would be a greatly appreciated as I want my white wife of almost 12 years to spread her legs and try another man for a 1st time a Black cock with my total encouragement and full support. I am torn between coming clean and telling her (which I think would ruin the possibility because of the weird shock factor ) or try manipulating her and working with a black man by chance meeting in a bar lounge to start the process more smoothly.

To understand my situation and where I am at this point, please read my "about" page under my profile.. I truly welcome any advise that could help lead her to spread her legs for a black man and us venture into this lifestyle here in the NJ area ..
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Pm
 
Torpedo said:
If you can't discuss sex with your wife you aren't cut out for the lifestyle. If you both have been monogamous for 12 years I wouldn't start out by asking her if she would like to fuck a well hung Black man. Any sudden changes in your attitude in the bedroom she may well interpret as as indication of your desire for new pussy or she my suspect you are cheating. She may well be satisfied with your bedroom performance. But if she isn't she probably already has gotten laid someplace else. If she is intoxicated you might ask her if she is happy sexually, is there is anything sexually she hasn't done but would like to do? Just ask one or two questions along this line, don't turn it into an interrogation. Most women fantasize about someone else from time to time. Whatever she tells you be supportive. More than likely later on, the next day or so she will broach the subject. You need to assure her that you are happy with what you are getting, but are concerned that she may be missing out. Let her know that you support her choice whatever it may be. Remember to tread lightly, her body is hers, who she shares it with is up to her. You push too hard and she won't be sharing it with you
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THIS.
 
mw29 said:
Please help...
Any good ideas or advise would be a greatly appreciated as I want my white wife of almost 12 years to spread her legs and try another man for a 1st time a Black cock with my total encouragement and full support. I am torn between coming clean and telling her (which I think would ruin the possibility because of the weird shock factor ) or try manipulating her and working with a black man by chance meeting in a bar lounge to start the process more smoothly.

To understand my situation and where I am at this point, please read my "about" page under my profile.. I truly welcome any advise that could help lead her to spread her legs for a black man and us venture into this lifestyle here in the NJ area ..
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mw29 said:
Please help...
Any good ideas or advise would be a greatly appreciated as I want my white wife of almost 12 years to spread her legs and try another man for a 1st time a Black cock with my total encouragement and full support. I am torn between coming clean and telling her (which I think would ruin the possibility because of the weird shock factor ) or try manipulating her and working with a black man by chance meeting in a bar lounge to start the process more smoothly.

To understand my situation and where I am at this point, please read my "about" page under my profile.. I truly welcome any advise that could help lead her to spread her legs for a black man and us venture into this lifestyle here in the NJ area ..
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Always remember.. You only live once so enjoy it. 😉😊
 
SCBlknNsty said:
You've been on this site over four years....you've posted over 1100 times....God only knows how many people you've DM'ed (including me)...

If all you want to do is fantasize, fine, but it's wrong to bullshit others into contributing so you'll have jerk off material.
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I didn’t know that. And, I agree
 
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