Need help advise getting into lifestyle..

mw29

mw29

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white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..photo-ffadult-r40-s2-477141984_20105.1297106588.0.main.jpg
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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She’s sexy for sure 😍
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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so… you’ve been a member since 2017 and have an unsuspecting wife that you want to bring into the lifestyle but you also posted earlier today that you want a QOS wife?


Thread 'Seeking QOS in NYC to be generous to...'
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/seeking-qos-in-nyc-to-be-generous-to.228518/
 
I always believe that being honest & up front is the best path to take.
Sharing & fulfilling sexual fantasies with each other opens up a path for you to accomplish what you desire.
Its sometimes difficult to get a conservative wife to open up, but I've found a that a few drinks usually lowers one's defenses enough to get that information. I certainly wouldn't try to trick her.
Adding a 3rd person adds some new experiences, whether the person is a black or white male, or even another woman for her to enjoy. A few threesomes aimed at her enjoyment and then you can recommend a black male to your next experience.
A conservative woman with no prior experiences is probably not going to accept a 3-some with a black male as her first experience.
You've got to have some open communication with her before you go to this lifestyle. Seems you need to do a bit of work in that area first.
Good luck!
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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Take her out and invite random black guys to flirt with her when u walk away. For instant go to a bar everytime you go get a new ******* find a new black guy to approach and flirt and at the end of the night ask her how she felt getting the attention
 
ImHimTheBbc said:
Take her out and invite random black guys to flirt with her when u walk away. For instant go to a bar everytime you go get a new ******* find a new black guy to approach and flirt and at the end of the night ask her how she felt getting the attention
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Great idea
 
MacNfries said:
I always believe that being honest & up front is the best path to take.
Sharing & fulfilling sexual fantasies with each other opens up a path for you to accomplish what you desire.
Its sometimes difficult to get a conservative wife to open up, but I've found a that a few drinks usually lowers one's defenses enough to get that information. I certainly wouldn't try to trick her.
Adding a 3rd person adds some new experiences, whether the person is a black or white male, or even another woman for her to enjoy. A few threesomes aimed at her enjoyment and then you can recommend a black male to your next experience.
A conservative woman with no prior experiences is probably not going to accept a 3-some with a black male as her first experience.
You've got to have some open communication with her before you go to this lifestyle. Seems you need to do a bit of work in that area first.
Good luck!
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Right on. Small steps. Threesome worked for me
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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You need to make your dick completely worthless. Try giving yourself PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction). View lots of interracial porn and jerk off as much as possible. Soon, you won't be able to get hard, much less maintain and erection. Your goal should be to become so worthless in bed, she broach the subject of an open relationship, and you steer her into BBC Only. Once she's had a taste of BBC she never want to go near you again, and that will lead to separate bedrooms, bull moves in, you leaving the house, then finally divorce where she gets all your money/assets. That's got to be the goal of all cuckolds; being discarded.
 
worthlesswhyte said:
You need to make your dick completely worthless. Try giving yourself PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction). View lots of interracial porn and jerk off as much as possible. Soon, you won't be able to get hard, much less maintain and erection. Your goal should be to become so worthless in bed, she broach the subject of an open relationship, and you steer her into BBC Only. Once she's had a taste of BBC she never want to go near you again, and that will lead to separate bedrooms, bull moves in, you leaving the house, then finally divorce where she gets all your money/assets. That's got to be the goal of all cuckolds; being discarded.
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not the way it works. My wife and I have grown closer due to our careing about each other. One thing is pleasure and the rest is love and respect with some maturity thrown in.
 
txskipper said:
not the way it works. My wife and I have grown closer due to our careing about each other. One thing is pleasure and the rest is love and respect with some maturity thrown in.
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I thought it was all about the superiority of BBC and how inadequate all white men are in all phases of a relationship.
 
mw29 said:
white husband here, part of white couple in our 30s living in NJ working in NYC. Hoping to find an outspoken dominant black bull that would be open to taking the time and guide me and my unaware white wife in my marriage down this road to get my committed white wife of 12 years involved without having a left field conversation about this lifestyle with her, as I feel it would freak her out and ruin the true slut potential she has and this can become.

Any genuine suggestions (she isn't into porn) guidance from anyone that can help us please? If you are a white with genuine advise or ideally a black bull that is looking to control our bedroom but ok with not meeting asap because of covid, but rather groom us to be black owned with an understanding of this dynamic fully please message me. Also if you glance my about page I detailed much more about us.. I have more pictures of my white wife..View attachment 5060286
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Lovely 😍 how can we help
 
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