I have been trying to get her to try this for quite awhile now, we have met a couple guys for drinks but she wasn't attracted enough to go for it at the time. I have finally gotten her to watch some BBC porn and she's becoming more open to it, but she's still going to have to be attracted or it won't work.
A turning point has been showing her pics from syscom3 and his 'In praise of older women' forum and the quote "For these beauties, this is pure lust. An older woman with a younger man is pure sex. Nothing more. No emotional connection. Just something that pleases them when nature has taken its course for their men." So take your smart ass comments and shove it, I don't give a fuck what your ignorant ass thinks. I just want to see her sexually gratified in ways I can rarely do lately. She's a classy and devoted lady and wife, but with my encouragement and meeting the right guy I'm hoping to pull it off this time, which is our right. What any of you think about it is irrelevant to anyone but you.