Question: "Why perpetuate that victim mentality here? Nothing sexy about that"
Answer: If someone is a victim.
To not face it and see through that lens. Would be psychologically repressive. Also not based in reality. This is not a sexy thread. Unless of course you find being a racist (the original posters example) sexy. It's interesting how it's okay for many groups to wear their victimhood on their sleeves. Yet for Black people "It's shut up and be quiet. Just get over it. You make everything about race."
Imagine That...
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Furthermore it is the height of arrogance. For the non-injured party. To dictate how the injured party should act and feel
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