I'd be a lot more concerned with herpes ... its on the rise in the US, and its incurable. A herpes sore inside the lining of the vagina is a very painful STD. Also, if anyone cares to google STDs, they'll find that 1:5 sexually active individuals, ages 16-39, does statistically have an STD.Advising people to play safe, get tested, and use condoms is not "ruining" anything for anyone. It's smart advice. You can quit smoking cigarettes, you can't get rid of HIV.
The reason some of us stress caution is because a woman takes most of the risks, thus screenings are extremely important with bareback sex.
That said, I'm sure we all hope its everything the two of you expect ....
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