Back when I was a young man an older guy I worked with told me to marry a homely woman and I would be a happy man for the rest of my life. He said they try harder in bed and I wouldn't have to worry other men hitting on her. He was a guy who had been around the world when he was in the military and had quite a bit of experience with women. I should add that his wife was not a good-looking woman!
I did not follow his advice and ended up marrying a VERY beautiful woman. His advice was only partially right. He was wrong about beautiful women not being good in bed. My wife is an enthusiastic and creative lover who never disappoints! He was right about the other thing though. Guys do hit on her all the time. It was worse when we first got married with her being so young and gorgeous. I was constantly worried about losing her to another man. At times, I didn't feel I was good enough to have what most men would think of as a trophy wife.
From day one, I could not believe she even dated me much less falling in love and marrying me. I always felt she was out of my league and to this day I can't believe my luck. I have to admit I love that other men find her desirable and am proud to be seen with her and I like seeing them look her up and down. I was pretty jealous when I was younger and got into some confrontations with men who hit on her so it was never an option for me to even consider sharing her. This did change after we had been married for several years. She had confessed to me she had a thing for black men and had dated a number of them before she met me. One thing led to another and against my inner voice saying, "Don't do it!" I did let her fuck black men. Every time I did I was petrified I would lose her but I kept allowing it to happen for a number of years.
My question is this, are any of you husbands out there lucky to be married to a gorgeous sexy woman that they think is out of their league and feel insecure about losing her but actually share her against your better judgement? I have been so conflicted and insecure about this. I have shared my feelings with my wife on this subject and she assures me she loves me and is happy to be my wife. I believe her when she tells me this but get concerned when she seems to enjoy the sex with other men so much and does just about anything for them, even things she has not done for me sexually. Maybe my co-worker's advice to me had more truth to it than I imagined!
I did not follow his advice and ended up marrying a VERY beautiful woman. His advice was only partially right. He was wrong about beautiful women not being good in bed. My wife is an enthusiastic and creative lover who never disappoints! He was right about the other thing though. Guys do hit on her all the time. It was worse when we first got married with her being so young and gorgeous. I was constantly worried about losing her to another man. At times, I didn't feel I was good enough to have what most men would think of as a trophy wife.
From day one, I could not believe she even dated me much less falling in love and marrying me. I always felt she was out of my league and to this day I can't believe my luck. I have to admit I love that other men find her desirable and am proud to be seen with her and I like seeing them look her up and down. I was pretty jealous when I was younger and got into some confrontations with men who hit on her so it was never an option for me to even consider sharing her. This did change after we had been married for several years. She had confessed to me she had a thing for black men and had dated a number of them before she met me. One thing led to another and against my inner voice saying, "Don't do it!" I did let her fuck black men. Every time I did I was petrified I would lose her but I kept allowing it to happen for a number of years.
My question is this, are any of you husbands out there lucky to be married to a gorgeous sexy woman that they think is out of their league and feel insecure about losing her but actually share her against your better judgement? I have been so conflicted and insecure about this. I have shared my feelings with my wife on this subject and she assures me she loves me and is happy to be my wife. I believe her when she tells me this but get concerned when she seems to enjoy the sex with other men so much and does just about anything for them, even things she has not done for me sexually. Maybe my co-worker's advice to me had more truth to it than I imagined!