i, really, do not know the answer to how we started. i gave my wife a hall pass in 1968 before i knew what a hall pass was. this was, obviously, before internet ,or any other outside influence.
i gave her the OK to give one of my AF buddies a BJ. i didn't know until about 5 yrs ago that it never happened.
we were only 19 & i have no idea why i told her it was ok.
then, after being apart for about 30 years we reconnected, even though we lived 700 miles apart. i had retired & moved south.
we started having phone sex until one night i read her a story from a site, different from this one.. it was about a women who has a girl's night out & gets home about 3-4;00am.
her husband asked her why so late & she confesses she went home with some guy she met in the club.
the story goes on with wife having a relationship with the guy & he becomes her BF with hubby's approval.
after my wife rubbed out 2 O's, i asked her if she could see herself living a LS like Sheila, without hesitation, she said yes.
then, after i picked myself up off the floor, LOl......
over the next few weeks, we talked about funding a stud for her. unfortunately, for her, after hubby no. 2 died, she hadn't had sex, with someone, in almost 5 years. she agreed & i placed a couple of adds in sites like this one. it led to her being, officially, shared at age 72.
unfortunately, she passed on 2/1/21 at age 73.