Wife and I have discussed this many times. Obviously more ethnic backgrounds in the workplace than ever before, at all levels. Second, as someone stated earlier, women are much more comfortable about expressing their needs and wants these days, especially if hubby is supportive. Finally, us white guys are feeling less inhibited or threatened about expressing our fantasies. Some even ask to be cuckolded or caged. My wife and I were having sex early in our marriage, whispering sexy things to one another as we fucked slowly. I whispered into her ear how much it would turn me on if a well-built black man were in my place on a regular basis, and I would watch her have orgasms with him. She just said: "Yes......" "Tell me more." I did, and she did! It takes a strong marriage to enjoy this lifestyle, though!
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