I think that my wifes sex drive borders on sex addiction. Her sex drive and my logging into this website seem to coincide. After a great holiday season and beginning of the year with her, she is back to her spring self. I guess the men in her life also begin to ask her to go places with them for spring break.
Part of me is jealous. It keeps her busy, her life is full of experience and she is healthy and confident and happy. The guys she sees are similar to her, they make sex such a big part of their lives that they need multiple partners. I guess thats why the lifestyle works for us, because we were helped along by some older swingers we met years ago. One of them, a beautiful brunette, looks like she is in her 20's (and she is 44 with three *******!) has always told me that I was doing the right thing with my wife. "Let her do her thing".
Healthy is sexy. My wife is pretty much, at six years into this lifestyle, a veteran. There are not THAT many that stick around. They come and go...some regret it. And it's always the same guys that get to fuck all of them. It is a certain personality. I wonder how many times those guys got a STD... lol.