Looking to chat

are there any married or single with girlfriends that are in the Chicago area or out in the suburbs? I am asking because I would love to chat and maybe build a friendship with like minded guys in my area and build maybe a support system for one another.

I am looking for individuals that haven't yet gotten their wife blacked but are either fantasizing about it or are somewhere along the lines of telling their wife/girlfriend about it and or close to making it happen. I thought that it might be a good idea just to support and encourage each of us going forward.

Know as I mentioned in a previous post my wife is battling breast cancer at the moment so my wants and desires need to wait until my wife is healed. As for me I am in the western suburbs in the Bartlett area.