Been on here for a few years, but forgot this site even existed lol. Am based in San Diego for work. Have had mostly negative experiences trying to meet people off sites like this. But every once in a while, someone awesome comes along and I get to have and help them have an amazing experience. If you're a real (meaning serious, non flaky and actually match what you represent yourself as) lady or couple in my area looking to meet, I'd love to hear from you. We can chat, see if I could possibly be a good "fit" (pun absolutely intended) and go from there.