Looking for advice

[Naughtycouple2]

Im not looking to be a cuckold..more of a stag.
I would like to see my girl play around with other men either with me watching or joining in. She is the shy type and doesnt want to do it incase she hurts me and she is scared to try but is also curious. Is there anything i can do to help her feel safe if we go through with anything? Anybody we speak to ill speak on her behalf until she feels ready to talk or we talk on a group chat and take it from there. Thats the process weve been doing but she doesnt seem to go past that.

She is curious shes just extremely shy, she always has been.

 

[Bigfunfun]

Im not looking to be a cuckold..more of a stag.
I would like to see my girl play around with other men either with me watching or joining in. She is the shy type and doesnt want to do it incase she hurts me and she is scared to try but is also curious. Is there anything i can do to help her feel safe if we go through with anything? Anybody we speak to ill speak on her behalf until she feels ready to talk or we talk on a group chat and take it from there. Thats the process weve been doing but she doesnt seem to go past that.

She is curious shes just extremely shy, she always has been.

My wife was the same way for a long time. The only thing that stops that with most gf or wife is after the first BBC FUCKS HER THEN ALL Good!

 

[rondipin]

Took me some years from bringing it up in bed and her actually considering at least the thought of it. Just be patient and never ******* her into it. Slowly and gently introduce her into the lifestyle, show her IR amateur porn (I introduced my wife to this forum and went through numerous media items) and enjoy it together. Her curiosity finally came out however she wanted a BWC initially if I was gonna be sharing her the first time, which had happened. Months later she agreed to finally try a BBC but had her reservations. Fast forward years to today, she has not looked back after her first BBC.

It's a lot of pillow talk involved. Lots of teasing. Make up scenarios in bed. I just knew my wife had it in her, I just had to expose it for her. Like your wife OP she is very shy and awkward and have always been conscious of her body that she is not built for such and unwanted. She was totally happy with our married sex life and I am too. I had to explain to her that there is nothing wrong with exploring and spicing it up further. We have the best sex all the time since we entered this lifestyle.

 

[Slutdeb]

Im not looking to be a cuckold..more of a stag.
I would like to see my girl play around with other men either with me watching or joining in. She is the shy type and doesnt want to do it incase she hurts me and she is scared to try but is also curious. Is there anything i can do to help her feel safe if we go through with anything? Anybody we speak to ill speak on her behalf until she feels ready to talk or we talk on a group chat and take it from there. Thats the process weve been doing but she doesnt seem to go past that.

She is curious shes just extremely shy, she always has been.

My advice is just remember if this is what you want this is not a light switch you turn off and on at your convenience. You start this she’s gonna want to do this even when you’re not in the mood. So be careful what you ask for and be ready

 

[Naughtycouple2]

Took me some years from bringing it up in bed and her actually considering at least the thought of it. Just be patient and never ******* her into it. Slowly and gently introduce her into the lifestyle, show her IR amateur porn (I introduced my wife to this forum and went through numerous media items) and enjoy it together. Her curiosity finally came out however she wanted a BWC initially if I was gonna be sharing her the first time, which had happened. Months later she agreed to finally try a BBC but had her reservations. Fast forward years to today, she has not looked back after her first BBC.

It's a lot of pillow talk involved. Lots of teasing. Make up scenarios in bed. I just knew my wife had it in her, I just had to expose it for her. Like your wife OP she is very shy and awkward and have always been conscious of her body that she is not built for such and unwanted. She was totally happy with our married sex life and I am too. I had to explain to her that there is nothing wrong with exploring and spicing it up further. We have the best sex all the time since we entered this lifestyle.

Thank you for the advice. I honestly really appreciate it. We have been taken it slow and slowly increasing. We have had some threesomes with other guys which she has enjoyed and looking for someone new to try with as we havent done anything in a while haha. Ill keep things updated on here though

 

[Naughtycouple2]

My advice is just remember if this is what you want this is not a light switch you turn off and on at your convenience. You start this she’s gonna want to do this even when you’re not in the mood. So be careful what you ask for and be ready

Yeah thats true. We are able to talk about if things go to far and how to resolve anything. We tend to be pretty good with that

 

[mariagarcia38]

My advice is just remember if this is what you want this is not a light switch you turn off and on at your convenience. You start this she’s gonna want to do this even when you’re not in the mood. So be careful what you ask for and be ready

Yes women have way higher sex drives once their fire is ignited.

 

[tdv]

Yes becareful what you wish for, I stated swinging with an ex and she ended checking me and cheating in me with bbc.

 

[mariagarcia38]

Yes becareful what you wish for, I stated swinging with an ex and she ended checking me and cheating in me with bbc.

I don’t know why, but the thought of my wife doing that gets me so hard.