I want to first start out by thanking many of for helping me with compromising with my husband on my "Hotwife" lifestyle that I desire. Thank you all for the wonderful advice and some of it definitely helped. For those who judge and attack...
So my husband has definitely opened his mind a lot more to where we have really positive discussions in regards to my desires. Before it created arguments and now he approaches my cravings through an investigational perspective. He truly now wants to know more about my fantasies and this is REALLY GOOD. Now we have a dialogue in respects to the topic allowing me to Express my self to him. Now I do not feel like I am suffocating, I am actually communicating with my husband.
But he is super smart and he know very well how to take the lead in a conversation so I NEED SOME COACHING. Calculated coaching. Remember he is not a "cuck", he is not submissive and he does not have a small penis. He is an alpha by many measures which has probably made this harder.
He asked me the question... "So what is it that would make you completely satisfied in this lifestyle? What is the ultimate goal?"
And I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER
He is asking where this all ends and I don't want to scare him by saying there is no limit but I dont want to set limits. This question from him is essentially telling me we are negotiating as if he is ACTUALLY CONSIDERING this and I do not want to push him away. I tell him to give me some time to answer him. Now I am in panic, this can be my only chance to convince him and I do not want to ruin it by answering incorrectly.
What are my goals? What is reasonable? What is unreasonable? Etc...
Can anyone assist? Thank you
So my husband has definitely opened his mind a lot more to where we have really positive discussions in regards to my desires. Before it created arguments and now he approaches my cravings through an investigational perspective. He truly now wants to know more about my fantasies and this is REALLY GOOD. Now we have a dialogue in respects to the topic allowing me to Express my self to him. Now I do not feel like I am suffocating, I am actually communicating with my husband.
But he is super smart and he know very well how to take the lead in a conversation so I NEED SOME COACHING. Calculated coaching. Remember he is not a "cuck", he is not submissive and he does not have a small penis. He is an alpha by many measures which has probably made this harder.
He asked me the question... "So what is it that would make you completely satisfied in this lifestyle? What is the ultimate goal?"
And I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER
He is asking where this all ends and I don't want to scare him by saying there is no limit but I dont want to set limits. This question from him is essentially telling me we are negotiating as if he is ACTUALLY CONSIDERING this and I do not want to push him away. I tell him to give me some time to answer him. Now I am in panic, this can be my only chance to convince him and I do not want to ruin it by answering incorrectly.
What are my goals? What is reasonable? What is unreasonable? Etc...
Can anyone assist? Thank you
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