Cuck4Beth,
I would tend to agree. Although I had a few bi experiences many years ago (more than 20), when we were with a black man, things seemed to take a bit different track. One of the things that turned me on the most, was being told either by my wife or better yet, her lover to eat the cream pie. There was nothing more visceral of response to seeing your woman TAKEN by another man. Being ****** to literally eat his cum makes one feel totally subdued and vulnerable. There were a number of times, when Bobbi was with another man, and I was totally cool with it, but it took a whole new direction when she TOLD me to "clean her up" in front of her (at that time) lover, who was not aware of my cuckold side. I felt humiliated and exposed. .. Wondered what he thought (as he was a regular at the swing club we attended.) Even though it is a rule in the "lifestyle," to keep quite about adult activities, people are people and he could have used it to embarrass the ******* out of me.