Ladies, who's idea was it, to get into this lifestyle?

big9indic

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My apologies if this post is redundant. 7d1c0399-6a70-411c-b842-49aad2ff8673.jpg 7ec381a2-8ee9-48c9-b82f-7e634150ced5.gif 5190b06a-cc88-4138-92d5-eb3e3815dd03.jpg Most of the posts and threads on the site, it's the male that introduces the wife to this lifestyle. But let's hear the truth from
you ladies! Who's idea was it to get into this lifestyle? Yours or your partner's? Perhaps a friend or other family member?
 

hotwifecouple78

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My apologies if this post is redundant. View attachment 925236 View attachment 925237 View attachment 925238 Most of the posts and threads on the site, it's the male that introduces the wife to this lifestyle. But let's hear the truth from
you ladies! Who's idea was it to get into this lifestyle? Yours or your partner's? Perhaps a friend or other family member?
Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.
 

Mrsjtkirk52

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Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.
Very well said babe
 
#5
for us, it was my wife who got us started in this lifestyle
first one of her best friends tried BBC....then her other best friend
Soon she was dropping hints to me along the lines of what I thought about the fact that BOTH her best friends are dating blk guys....then she was asking me if I have ever thought about HER being with a blk man
Next thing I knew she was getting me to watch IR porn with her in bed at night....blk on Asian porn
we watched together and I swear she would get so hot....grab my hand and put it on her pussy so I could feel how wet she was getting just from watching those big blk dicks
finally, her friends started talking to us about how they have this blk guy they want Monica to meet
That's when the whole discussion began.....I resisted the idea at first, but eventually gave in to her blk desires
 
#7
with an ex-girlfriend years ago it began with my IR fantasies. The fantasies got us both hot when we fucked. Then an opportunity presented itself to her in the form of a black co-worker. I told her I was fine with anything that may happen, and something did, and she had a black lover in her life for a few months
 

big9indic

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#8
Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.
Thanks for your insight and comments. Very well said :lips:
 
#11
Well what you have seen on many other posts and threads is true. In most cases it is the husband who initially desires the couple to get into the hotwife or cuckold lifestyle. As much as many men on here love the idea and fantasy of a wife just not being able to help herself and wanting to have sex with other men, the reality is usually starts with the husband based on his fantasies and sexual excitement....most wives are just not wired that way to want to go out and have sex with other men. Many wives do it initially to please their husband and for the couple's relationship. Of those wives who actually consider it, some are not interested in it and some end up enjoying it. For many, it helps to enhance the sex life of the couple and they enjoy doing it together. In our case, it was definitely my husband who brought up the idea and after discussing it and roleplaying it for several years, we both decided to do it for real once we thought we were ready to try it. Once we did it, we realized it was not that big of a deal and it was just sex. We continue to do it to enhance our own sex life and enjoy doing it together s a couple and find it fun and exciting. We do it for each other, and not for anyone else.
Awesome response! I have always wanted to see a real reply from a woman's perspective regarding this lifestyle. I am not into to the wimp/humiliation stuff at all and was wondering what the hot wife lifestyle is like for couples in the long term. Do you still deeply love your husband and have great sex with him alone? Would you stop it if he requested it and be able to never have sex with another man again? Finally, do think he is less of a man for wanting to watch you have sex with other men? Thanks for any reply!
 
#15
Although we're not married, we are real couple, and I, Alice, and before I met him, I liked having sex with others. We love each other but give us freedom, because one thing is love and other sex for pleasure without compromise.

I am not a female one male, I like to try and change lover, and among them, the black, for me, are the best.

Life is short, and we have to enjoy every moment, I do love sex, and I do it whenever I can. In addition to being fucked by several males at the same time, there is only one possibility, do it outside the couple, and that drives me crazy.

They say that good girls go to heaven, and that bad or naughty, they go everywhere, lol, I decided on the latter, to not miss a single new and exciting new experience. It is for that reason, a good reason :blackgreedy::threesome:

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big9indic

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#16
I don't know, we haven't been intimate in a while now so I haven't done it yet and I don't know what I will do.[/QUOTE

First, thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Secondly, have you tried talking to your hubby about your concerns? He was originally open with you regarding his fantasies and desires, why can't you do the same? Regardless of whether you participate in this lifestyle or not, don't you think he, & yourself deserve that much?
 

big9indic

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VA, US
#17
Although we're not married, we are real couple, and I, Alice, and before I met him, I liked having sex with others. We love each other but give us freedom, because one thing is love and other sex for pleasure without compromise.

I am not a female one male, I like to try and change lover, and among them, the black, for me, are the best.

Life is short, and we have to enjoy every moment, I do love sex, and I do it whenever I can. In addition to being fucked by several males at the same time, there is only one possibility, do it outside the couple, and that drives me crazy.

They say that good girls go to heaven, and that bad or naughty, they go everywhere, lol, I decided on the latter, to not miss a single new and exciting new experience. It is for that reason, a good reason :blackgreedy::threesome:

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