Just told my gf about my fantasy of her being with a BBC. Need tips!

[ibo]

So I finally cracked tonight and told my girlfriend about my fantasy that I’ve had for a long time of seeing my gf be with a black hung male. Explained why I thought it would be hot and why I wanted it for her for her pleasures sake. She didn’t write the idea off. She seemed on the fence about it but she said she would have to think about it. Now I obviously don’t want to be pushy but I doooo want this to happen. Anyone have any tips on convincing her/going about it the right way in a manner that is mutual to the relationship?

 

[SirACCB]

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So I finally cracked tonight and told my girlfriend about my fantasy that I’ve had for a long time of seeing my gf be with a black hung male. Explained why I thought it would be hot and why I wanted it for her for her pleasures sake. She didn’t write the idea off. She seemed on the fence about it but she said she would have to think about it. Now I obviously don’t want to be pushy but I doooo want this to happen. Anyone have any tips on convincing her/going about it the right way in a manner that is mutual to the relationship?

Bringing it up was a good start. Since she didn't dismiss it out of hand, that's a good sign. Give her a little time to think it over. Then maybe try introducing her to some porn that you're into that will show her what you envision for her and the pleasure she's going to get, but don't push. Just plant the seed. Then talk more about your fantasy or maybe buy her the clothes or lingerie you'd love to see her in. Once she knows how serious you are and how you will support her, it might give her the go ahead in her mind to explore it.

 

[selpicsid]

I have talked and she is open to have something happen this weekend in Shreveport but she wants me to take down a female but she is open to a bbc

 

[ibo]

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Bringing it up was a good start. Since she didn't dismiss it out of hand, that's a good sign. Give her a little time to think it over. Then maybe try introducing her to some porn that you're into that will show her what you envision for her and the pleasure she's going to get, but don't push. Just plant the seed. Then talk more about your fantasy or maybe buy her the clothes or lingerie you'd love to see her in. Once she knows how serious you are and how you will support her, it might give her the go ahead in her mind to explore it.

Good idea. Will do. I’ll let her think about it for a bit then ask again in due time. Do you think a BBC dildo would be a good start too?

 

[SirACCB]

I think it's worthwhile purchase It'll be useful as she's thinking of what she wants to do. You all can talk about your fantasy and role play things.

 

[Bellaazz]

Take it slow. Even though you are super excited for this to happen, moving too quickly will take her out of her comfort zone and perhaps end the idea permanently. Just continue to do subtle things and gradually take it further. The black cock, white wife porn is a good way to keep it in her mind. Also, in my opinion you should make sex all about her pleasure only. Eat her to an orgasm while watching the porn but do not do anything for yourself. In order to take it further, she needs to fully understand that her orgasms are what are important, not yours. Just my 2 cents, worked for me. Good luck !!!!!!!

 

[StevieGirl]

She is def on board... but didn't want to look overly eager. Don't bring it up again until she does. But understand, you can never put the genie back in the lamp again. She will forever be a slut for black men. Lucky her.

 

[ibo]

She is def on board... but didn't want to look overly eager. Don't bring it up again until she does. But understand, you can never put the genie back in the lamp again. She will forever be a slut for black men. Lucky her.

Fine by me! Yeah my plan now is to just wait and see what happens if she brings it up or not

 

[andy g]

So I finally cracked tonight and told my girlfriend about my fantasy that I’ve had for a long time of seeing my gf be with a black hung male. Explained why I thought it would be hot and why I wanted it for her for her pleasures sake. She didn’t write the idea off. She seemed on the fence about it but she said she would have to think about it. Now I obviously don’t want to be pushy but I doooo want this to happen. Anyone have any tips on convincing her/going about it the right way in a manner that is mutual to the relationship?

Be supportive and show her how much it turns you on. Try watching interracial porn together, maybe some dirty talk if she's into it, after some time see if she'd be interested in getting a bbc toy (super fun going shopping together and picking one out!), Use the toy during sex whether it's just watching her use it and jacking off or mounting it on the wall and having her suck your dick. Just be supportive of her, you can only do so much. Don't rush anything, and do whatever you can to make her more comfortable about the idea.

Good luck! Hope she says yes!

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Well, if she did not object right away maybe she was fantasizing about it already even before you brought it up. And perhaps she's already out on a "hunt" for a suitable man at the time you are typing, asking for advice.

It is important she understands the difference between sex within a couple's lifestyle and cheating because if she does not, she may interprete your offer as a green light to having sex even behind your back. Some Women use such an offer as an excuse for cheating as it may seem more convenient simply to have sex without going through all the possible emotional twists and discussions that would naturally take place if it was sex within a "swinging arrangement" and with the partner involved.

Be careful what you wish for. Make sure you both are on the same page; and always communicate openly, even (or especially) if it makes things more complicated. Actually that's part of the "fun" of this lifestyle and the path that will lead to understand each other better and growing closer as a couple on the shared way to sharing your spouse. Good luck!

 

[Catgirl800]

Told my wife I watch and love interracial blonde on blacks. Told her a few girls looked like her and it was hot then told her few times she should buy a dildo. One night just before sex she brought one out. She was soaked ridding it harder she rode it harder she sucked me. Have used it twice now. Last time I fed it all the way in she was wet and pussy farting. Well I’m not sure if she wants to try real thing yet or if she just bought it to satisfy me. I’m slowly working on her trying real thing.

 

[tdv]

Damm bro I ain't got the balls to tell my gf that!
Maybe start her off with watching some IR porn. Give her a little "task", tell her to go online and find an IR movie the two of you can watch together. If SHE picks it out she will have picked it for a particular reason. While your watching it and she's stroking your cock, ask her why she chose that one.

 

[Blkallover]

So I finally cracked tonight and told my girlfriend about my fantasy that I’ve had for a long time of seeing my gf be with a black hung male. Explained why I thought it would be hot and why I wanted it for her for her pleasures sake. She didn’t write the idea off. She seemed on the fence about it but she said she would have to think about it. Now I obviously don’t want to be pushy but I doooo want this to happen. Anyone have any tips on convincing her/going about it the right way in a manner that is mutual to the relationship?

Try watching interracial pron while having sex and buy a black dildo and have fantasy sex with it

 

[ibo]

Damm bro I ain't got the balls to tell my gf that!
Maybe start her off with watching some IR porn. Give her a little "task", tell her to go online and find an IR movie the two of you can watch together. If SHE picks it out she will have picked it for a particular reason. While your watching it and she's stroking your cock, ask her why she chose that one.

Yooooooo that’s fucking GENIOUS

 

[ibo]

Told my wife I watch and love interracial blonde on blacks. Told her a few girls looked like her and it was hot then told her few times she should buy a dildo. One night just before sex she brought one out. She was soaked ridding it harder she rode it harder she sucked me. Have used it twice now. Last time I fed it all the way in she was wet and pussy farting. Well I’m not sure if she wants to try real thing yet or if she just bought it to satisfy me. I’m slowly working on her trying real thing.

I’m kinda hoping that’s how it starts out tbh. With a bbc dildo and IR porn. I feel as if there needs to be some trust from her to me as to seeing that it really does turn me on and then she may allow herself to be turned on by it too. So we’ll see.

 

[Catgirl800]

Good luck I haven’t had her watch interracial yet been looking for homegrown blonde porn that’s not acting. Something real..

 

[DarkDreamsNJ]

a black dildo is a good visual but also a necessity to stretch her pussy out before she has a bbc. As black guys are thicker in my experience. But note she might not ever want to stop once she starts as it’s addictive. And you’ll eventually have to figure out how to deal with your feelings of her wanting him more than you.

 

[georgia and d]

if wife is on the fence about it saying she have to think about it she probably like bbc fuck her, maybe she worried you might not like seeing her enjoy giving bbc something you enjoy having, tell her you love her this is just broadening your sex life, if you tell her it will make you hornier,

 

[bobter65]

Good idea. Will do. I’ll let her think about it for a bit then ask again in due time. Do you think a BBC dildo would be a good start too?

Interacial porn helps

 

[Jo Roman]

a black dildo is a good visual but also a necessity to stretch her pussy out before she has a bbc. As black guys are thicker in my experience. But note she might not ever want to stop once she starts as it’s addictive. And you’ll eventually have to figure out how to deal with your feelings of her wanting him more than you.

Not more than you, just different.
Just make sure your feelings are more arousal than anguish. Hearing your lady moan, groan and sing her sing of pleasure like never before can be such agonizing but exquisite *******.