You can’t. You feelings will be overwhelming and utterly unmanageable. They are likely to include grief, humiliation, despair, rage, self hatred, among others. These feelings will consume and drown you. You will be unable to sleep and lose your appetite. You will have constant visions of her betrayal and her *******. The feelings will shatter your sense of self, annihilate your confidence, and crush your soul. The rest of your life will consist of unspeakable and unceasing suffering.
Flcouple38
Couple
If just jealousy and it goes away it is called Cuckold Angst. Saying that if it dogs you around, makes you angry, etc. then stop. You have to have your emotions in check and be able to communicate. Some ways to prevent it are do not cum for a few days prior and then wait till after the events to cum. As soon as you cum there is letdown for both wife and hubby/bf after that happens. Again if this is something that is tormenting you are not ready and keep in fantasy realm..
BruceJenner76
Male
Curious, why a let down for both of you? Do women feel the same after?
Jealousy will give you the pleasure. First you will feel jealousy, but dont say or do nothing, just submit to the situation... accept it. You will feel humiliation and submission, but those feelings will give you mind blowing pleasure. You will see the hottest porn in the world, porn acctresses cant compete with your own wife or girlfred... its just imposible.
Flcouple38
Couple
Once a person comes the feelings go away but they come back once builds up again with hormones, etc. When a person cums it flushes out the system. Perfectly normal. the brain is a very complex thing. Once those levels go down with orgasm it takes awhile to come back up again if not stimulated.
BruceJenner76
Male
I totally get it from male perspective, just not the female perspective
Sorry I thought you meant to ask just about the negative parts. Of course the trick is to include and maybe even emphasize the positive stuff. For me the trick is this. In a way the worse it gets the more I am empowered and in control and contented. How can that be? I have willed things to be this way. I have ****** my wife to be a contemptible slut and emotional abuser that she never wanted to be. I have plunged her into an addiction that now controls her utterly. Her own magnificent lust and orgasmic bliss terrifies and even terrorizes her. Watching that is the best thing I could ever imagine.
Forget that question and any answer you will get. People here will tell you perhaps a hundred different things. That's because they generalize their very personal own relationships and experiences. What is true or right for them need not be the same for you.
Key is to understand your own(!) and your partner's desires first, find common ground and, when both of you are ready, act on them. In any case progress can only be made when you are peers in the whole process, communicate openly and make each step together as a couple. Otherwise you may be challenging your relationship.
Good luck!
We’re about to explore our first time. I have to admit I’m terrified. But I did bring this all about. It brings up such conflicting feelings
As in you’re both agreed on it? I think we’re still 6 months away from the place you’re at! Good luck. Can’t wait to hear any updates..
She is still a little nervous and guilt ridden. She’s worried about the long term effect if it becomes our lifestyle
We’re in the same position. It really turns J on and she keeps brining it up (subtly, but I know the signals now) so we talk about it often. She’s asked loads of questions including ‘what if it’s mind blowingly good’ to which I said....that’s the idea. I think she feels bad for me if she enjoys it and wants it often. I just need to convince her that I am completely onboard with the idea myself!
I only focus on the exciting parts. Picturing her with her Bull. Hearing it. But then I need to deal with the fact that he’s going to be on her mind
Iwanthertocry
Male
There is no managing, you have to be in sync with a partner you can trust. It's about getting off on watching black men have her and having that feeling in your stomach overpower by the excitement of seeing her pounded.
