shestheone10
Male
Hi all, and thanks to anyone who takes the time to read this.
My GF is a very dominant and high maintenance woman, she has made it known to me from the start she thinks I’m punching above my weight being with her, although she thinks I’m very handsome but in terms of finances I can’t give her the life she wants right now, she’s always dated older well off guys and is used to luxury and the fast life. I’ve fallen into some debt recently and we have been struggling financially as the lifestyle she wants for us is so expensive.
This is where it gets interesting, something has changed with her recently…and one night when she returned from a weekend away at a family event in another city, she said she thinks she needs to get another bf “just for financial gain” and asked me what I think of that, and she insisted I can’t have another gf, I said I’m ok with it and her face lit up with amazement, she didn’t believe me and said “your only saying that to see what sort of gf I am”. Anyway after that she said she was only joking and that she’s happy with me and doesn’t need another bf etc that she can just get money from men without dating them and everytime I brought it up she would just laugh it off or change the subject. The other night we had an argument about money again and the following day at work, I text her telling her I love her and want only her but if she wants to see someone else then I’m ok with it, she replied saying I should stop being silly and that she loves me too, I then returned from work to a candle lit dinner, romantic music and she was in a very good mood, after dinner we sat and talked being intimate and she brought it up again and said “I shouldn’t say that cos if I did ******* with someone else, you wouldn’t like it”
What do yall think???
My GF is a very dominant and high maintenance woman, she has made it known to me from the start she thinks I’m punching above my weight being with her, although she thinks I’m very handsome but in terms of finances I can’t give her the life she wants right now, she’s always dated older well off guys and is used to luxury and the fast life. I’ve fallen into some debt recently and we have been struggling financially as the lifestyle she wants for us is so expensive.
This is where it gets interesting, something has changed with her recently…and one night when she returned from a weekend away at a family event in another city, she said she thinks she needs to get another bf “just for financial gain” and asked me what I think of that, and she insisted I can’t have another gf, I said I’m ok with it and her face lit up with amazement, she didn’t believe me and said “your only saying that to see what sort of gf I am”. Anyway after that she said she was only joking and that she’s happy with me and doesn’t need another bf etc that she can just get money from men without dating them and everytime I brought it up she would just laugh it off or change the subject. The other night we had an argument about money again and the following day at work, I text her telling her I love her and want only her but if she wants to see someone else then I’m ok with it, she replied saying I should stop being silly and that she loves me too, I then returned from work to a candle lit dinner, romantic music and she was in a very good mood, after dinner we sat and talked being intimate and she brought it up again and said “I shouldn’t say that cos if I did ******* with someone else, you wouldn’t like it”
What do yall think???
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