I talked with our live-in about this last night. And he said that he felt that a lot of men, white men especially, equate their lack of masculinity to their lack of penis size.
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Our live-in also said that if his cock was as small as my husband's penis is that he would probably feel ashamed as well.
Our live-in told me that when he was in high school that a lot of the white boys would stare at his cock, and many of them would rub themselves while doing so. He said that it was obvious that a lot of the other boys were envious of his size, and of his ability to easy bed girls. And that his size often turned on the smaller penis white boys.
Just imagine being in my husband's position . . .
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There is a definite difference in the size of my husband's manliness compared to my lovers.
As well as a man's feelings about his own "manliness," his "manliness" is often judged by jury of his peers. Men, especially, judge others by their physical characteristics. Fat men are often considered to be lazy. Men with tight bodies are often envied by other men, and seen as more masculine, yet, the size of a man's penis often sets him apart.
Word of a man's smallness or large size gets out and around quickly, especially in grade school and high school years. This, often, is when a boy finds out where he fits in.
Our live-in told me that when he was in junior high and had sex with his first white girl that the girl he fucked couldn't help but talk about how huge he was to all her friends, and this got him laid, a lot, after that first time. Our live-in said that a lot of white boys would come to him and say things like, "You know they only want you for your big dick," or they would ask him how he got sex with girls so easily. His only response was that he had a big dick.
Look at the picture below . . .
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The man above may look scrawny from the waist up, but from the waist down, not so much. A girl, or woman may not be attracted to such a scrawny "man," but once she sees what he has in his pants, her perception of him is going to change.
The same perception change is going to occur with the "man" pictured below.
From the waist up, the "man" pictured below looks very masculine, but once you see below his waist, it appears that is not the case at all.
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My husband was eating me out the other night and said to me, "I may not be as good as Ray (my 7" lover) but maybe someday . . ." I told my husband that he could never be as good as Ray is, because Ray is a master at eating pussy. And because Ray is so good at eating me out, my husband doesn't have to be. The same applies to cock size. Because our live-in and most of my lovers are well sized and please me, sexually, my husband doesn't have to.
The size of man "man's" penis doesn't denote who he is, but it often denotes how he lives.
