I need help with my girlfriend please

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markheard

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Hello everyone, I recently discovered this forum and I was very interested.

I introduce myself I am mark I am 30 years old, I am in a relationship with a 26 year old woman
her name is Amber.

I have a question that must have been asked a thousand times.

I have been with Amber for 3 years and I must say that everything is going very well.

but for a few months it's been quite complicated I feel her distant, and intimately I know that I have certain difficulties.

we talked about it and she assures me that there is no problem.

I know she dated black boyfriends in high school and she's been talking to me about it more and more lately.

I started to doubt, even if she assures me that everything is fine, did she have this idea in mind?
 
Maybe ... it's certainly my imagination
i would like to talk to her but I don't want her to get angry or take it badly
 
Talk to her about your perception of distance or coldness, and whether there is something you should be talking about regarding your relationship.

Do NOT talk to her about your fantasies that the distance involves a desire for interracial sex. I can almost guarantee that that will, in fact, make her angry.

This is a fetish/interest you have (or you wouldn't be here or have even found the site) not anything to do with her and certainly not anything to with the state of your relationship.
 
This guy killed it in terms of responses and there’s almost no other responses needed. You could “close this thread” as the questions been answered
 
markheard said:
Hello everyone, I recently discovered this forum and I was very interested.

I introduce myself I am mark I am 30 years old, I am in a relationship with a 26 year old woman
her name is Amber.

I have a question that must have been asked a thousand times.

I have been with Amber for 3 years and I must say that everything is going very well.

but for a few months it's been quite complicated I feel her distant, and intimately I know that I have certain difficulties.

we talked about it and she assures me that there is no problem.

I know she dated black boyfriends in high school and she's been talking to me about it more and more lately.

I started to doubt, even if she assures me that everything is fine, did she have this idea in mind?
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Let’s see her
 
I don't know if i will stay here again, i feel like some people are quite condescending to me, i just exposed a problem i am going through, i just wanted to understand, i don't have that fetish in the beginning

but thank's to Hottiemaybe for his kindness, Ebonythunder too
 
markheard said:
I don't know if i will stay here again, i feel like some people are quite condescending to me, i just exposed a problem i am going through, i just wanted to understand, i don't have that fetish in the beginning

but thank's to Hottiemaybe for his kindness, Ebonythunder too
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Just block the people you feel are condescending.
 
Hottiemaybe said:
Almost certainly not. If she is distant, than you may very well have a relationship issue that needs to be addressed. Assuming it is a desire for black men, and asking about it on a porn site, is just you viewing things through the lens of your fetish.

You should actually talk to her about what is going on.
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Definitely this is the best answer, sometimes when there's some other issues inside the relationship it have a clearly reflected on the bed, it doesn't mean the person run after someone or have it on mind, probably she's dealing alone with something you can't see it come because your head are somewhere else.
 
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