I admitted to wife that im having 2nd thoughts.

Latincpl602

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So after countless conversations with wifey about why we shouldnt go thru with this, we agreed on trying it once n for all... or maybe not. She was kinda bummed about it but she was ok with it, so i thought. So we start getting freaky and right away she tells me to pull out her favorite toy from closet, which is thick 9 " black dildo. When i came out she had on the porn. The video she chose, BIG BLACK COCK GANGBANG. So after quickly persuading me she said she needs to get it off her chest. I choos who when where and rules. She gets to decide if i get to be present n watch. And he must be as big or bigger than her toy. Any thoughts?
 
I ditto everything said. We have both had times where not feeling it. Anytime that has happened the other person, for better or worse, has said OK, lets pull it off till we both are on board. Anything else in our opinion will be disaster in making and cause harm beyond belief. Either both in fully with some nerves for one or both out. Do not do to be nice, this is not something you do to be nice. Many women have done likewise in your position and ends up destroying relationship and how she looks at husband.
 
Keep in mind I'm new to all this but I have to agree with the other commenters. There's one thing that should always be at the center of all of this, you both should be protective of each others feelings. She should always be your priority and vice versa. I've read a lot of comments on here and you can tell which women really love their husbands and which view them as hurdles to get over.
 
I had the same issue...
But now I'm happy with it. We have more sex than ever and she fucks BBC whenever she can and needs too. Her sexual appetite has gone from average too addicted. It's a turn on so I recommend to let go of the insecurity and let her.
I recommend that you get some rules early and some rules that'll make you crazy (in a good way ?) our rule is that she is "black only" on blowjobs and anal. It's a turn on the both of us.
 
Lots of good answers. You are likely to get two types of answers. One from people who have been there and done it, who will tell you that you BOTH have to be on board, and the other type of answer from the cuck fantasy type of guy, who will tell you that you should get her to go through with it.

Honestly, my opinion, a relationship can only last if BOTH agree to ground rules, follow them, and stop if one does not feel comfortable with it.
 
I dont think ill be satisfied til we finally do it no matter what i do or how hard i try just thinking of the idea makes me wanna come.i want to see her expression as she gets her first bbc. I wanna hear her moaning as he fills her. Until she tells him to go a little faster then deeper. Then eventually ii wanna hear her beg for more n more. Harder n harder til her juices are flowing more n more. I just want to watch her be the dirty slut she loves to be and screaming how nuch she loves it.
 
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