So after countless conversations with wifey about why we shouldnt go thru with this, we agreed on trying it once n for all... or maybe not. She was kinda bummed about it but she was ok with it, so i thought. So we start getting freaky and right away she tells me to pull out her favorite toy from closet, which is thick 9 " black dildo. When i came out she had on the porn. The video she chose, BIG BLACK COCK GANGBANG. So after quickly persuading me she said she needs to get it off her chest. I choos who when where and rules. She gets to decide if i get to be present n watch. And he must be as big or bigger than her toy. Any thoughts?