Our story:
Met wife when she was 34 & she had a strict Catholic upbringing. She had had sex with only 3 other men before me, all white, & never had an orgasm. Before we got engaged she informed me that she had never given nor received oral sex & had no intention of changing that. I informed her that that would change or we were done. She had never seen porn, never used sex toys, didn’t have any sexual fantasies (I had to look this up and it’s true some women don’t) and had never had a sex dream.
I told her my fantasy of watching her have sex with a well hung black guy before we got married (life is too short not see where a potential life partner stands on things that are critical to your sexual fulfillment). She wasn’t disgusted or upset, but said it wasn’t her fantasy & she wasn’t really attracted to black guys.
She was completely shut down to watching porn. One evening I came home with one with Sean Michaels (where he was some kind of sex doctor helping cure white wives of their disinterest in sex) in a brown paper bag. She asked what was is the bag, When I told her she yelled at me that she WAS NOT going to watch it with me. I calmly replied, “yeah I know, I’m going to watch it in the den by myself.” She thought that was weird and I said “to each their own, I would prefer to watch it with you but I know you are opposed to it so…” went in, set it up and she started talking to me through the door about how strange that I would watch it alone. About a minute later she came in and sat down next to me. She was nervous and making fun of the outfits they were wearing etc. Her eyes got really big when she saw the size of his cock. Undoubtedly the biggest cock she had ever seen anywhere. I eventually started fingering her while we watched and she came, sitting there next to me watching a full blown IR porn.
Got her a hard off-white plastic vibrator that a prior GF swore by. When I showed the wife she freaked out. Told me no way she was going to use that. According to her it was gross, disgusting, weird, unnatural etc etc. and she didn’t need something like that. I told her this isn’t about “need” it’s about want and about great physical pleasure. I persisted, turned it on she was still saying “no” when I finally touched her pussy with it and the “no’s” turned to “ooooohhhhhssss” less than half a second later and she came within 10 seconds. Vibrators were no longer on the banned list.
After about a month my wife told me that she didn’t like the fact that it was hard plastic and asked if I could get one made out of softer material. Could hardly contain my smile. Went down to a local adult book store the next day and got her a very large, jet black, life like vibrator that clearly doubles as a dildo. That night when we were getting ready to fool around I showed it to her and she immediately said “no freaking way! That is WAAAYYY TOO BIG. It won’t fit!” I reassured her that she had given birth to two normal sized babies. It would be fine. I’ll go very slow and use lots of lube. She didn’t want to try inserting it that night but a few days later she was reluctantly willing to try. Went slow, lots of lube, and was rubbing her clit at the time. She started to make noises I had never heard before from her but it kind of sounded like she was in pain. I asked her if I was hurting her and she said “no” then continued to moan and make the same noises that sounded like pain but louder this time. I asked her again and she replied, “No, it feels FUCKING AMAZING, DON’T STOP!!!” I did t have it in her for too long but knew she was getting immense pleasure. I started to slide it deeper, push harder and whispered in her ear “Oh baby this well hung black guy has wanted to slide his massive cock in your tight married pussy for so long, he wants to fuck you all the time now.” She came like a fucking volcano almost immediately. Then she rolled over on her back with her legs spread apart and was a mess. She was staring off into space, breathing hard, her legs were ******* twitching/shaking, and she actually had tears coming down her cheeks. It was a deeply satisfying, moving orgasm. But after this it was still a bit of an uphill battle to have her watch IR porn, and it also took lots of foreplay to overcome her Catholic guilt and sexual hang ups to where she would let me use the BBC toy on her. I could get her there and she would have amazing orgasms but it was a struggle. One day I confronted her about this. Told her it was “like pushing a boulder up a hill” every time to get her to the crest then once there it was amazing and we had so much fun. Her response was, “So you have to work harder, at least I get there eventually, right?”
She once told me she had never heard, “once you go black you never go back,” and she said it must be a joke.
Later she had a scorching hot sex dream about getting her brains fucked out by a big, strong very well endowed black guy. She confessed that was likely because weeks earlier I showed her a massive slide show (hundreds of dick picks) alternating between little white dicks and very large black cocks. Definitely had an impact. (Full story here: Post in thread 'Comparing Black Cock with White Penis'
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/comparing-black-cock-with-white-penis.6432/post-4190840
On a very long car trip completely out of the blue, my wife asked me “Hey you know those pictures you showed me a couple months ago with all those white and black dicks? Well, are all black guys that well hung?” Playing dumb and seeing the advantage of keeping “the myth” alive in my wife’s mind, I replied “Well I haven’t taken a poll or anything, but all I can tell you is that I have downloaded a ton of IR pictures, and I would say in those pictures probably 98 or 99% of the black guys have really big dicks.” It was a true statement because 1) the internet isn’t geared to showing small black dicks unless you specifically ask for that, and 2) why would I want to download a clip or picture of a black man fucking a white woman with a small or average sized cock? Anyway, when I told her that she said, “hmmmmm that’s something I’m going to have to store away in my head.” Just a minute later she admitted to me that when she got divorced she went to a divorcee support group and there was a white woman in there who’s black husband cheated on her multiple times and she kept taking him back, my wife then said, “I bet the sex was reallllyyyy good for her to keep taking him back.” And I said, “yeah I bet it was and I bet he had a really big cock.”
This is already long enough (sorry about that) and there are other examples, but the bottom line is that my wife went from a shy, very inexperienced woman who had a very narrow restricted view of what was appropriate sex, to cumming all over big black dildos, fucking herself with them when if I finished early, having her only sex dream be about getting wildly fucked by a strong black man with a big cock….. and I guarantee there are deeper darker secrets squirreled away in her that I hope to uncover when we take our first vacation without ******* next month. As I said… work in progress.
