God I love watching the men discuss this stuff.
I'm very happy to hear that Annie. I try to please and inform both sexy and not so sexy women members here at the same time as I educate men in my writing to member cuck and bull buddies.
Just lobbing the Ball into your court now Annie, please tell us something about your preferences in men, both black and white, younger and older, and how you rank your lovers on the stimulation and satisfaction scale according to their awareness or otherwise of how you love to be fucked, and how well they measure up.
Personally, I believe that for the woman to become meaningfully and maximally orgasmic, romance, sensitivity, tenderness and love for her spontaneously demonstrated by the man in foreplay and in thrusting during the early stages of lovemaking, are essential for her to trust him and therefore to fearlessy open up to him, and to effectively reciprocate physically in her pursuit and achievment of ultimate pleasure for herself.
Men ought always to fuck as if getting pleasure for themselves from it is of far less importance than them stimulating and satisfying the woman. This is my heterosexual credo and practice and it works beautifully, particularly for women who are eager for me as an experienced sperm donor to impregnate them. It works for me too, because I just love to feel a woman orgasming on my cock. For me it's simply Heaven on Earth.
Admittedly the libido of such women is at a maximum for them because in nearly every instance I fuck them slap-bang in the middle of their cycle, and my invariable approach (described above) to loving and encouraging such babywanting wives in foreplay and in actually fucking them has resulted in many of them having their first-ever orgasm.
The reaction to that of watching husbands is often one of wonder mixed with barely concealed panic. But thankfully after having watched me loving and inseminating their wives several times, most of the adverse reactors have eventually taken and applied my live teaching on how to satisfy their wives, with truly beautiful enhancement of their sex-lives.