how to live peacefully with sexual frustration

how to reach a balance between sexual frustration and working

I am working in a harsh and stressful environment

The fantasy of being dominated or even cuckolded by my wife has been there for years and I also have a fantasy of wearing permanent chastity device secured with piercing.

The reality is I have get used to eating a lot, sleeping a lot, working hard, having sex or masturbation whenever I want, with my wife

But honestly speaking, I've been impotent on bed with my wife but I can jerk off easily and happily with those sick
cuckolding or femdom porn videos.

I tried to practice the fantasy a little bit but the outcome was I couldn't sleep well the whole night with chastity device, I couldn't eat well or focus on my work, and at the end of the day I was mentally and physically frustrated a lot and finally broken and gave up

Is it really that fantasy is fantasy, reality is reality . and it's quite impossible to bring the fantasy into reality?

Or is it really possible, but it really takes a lot of time or effort and a lot of trade offs?
 
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