Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by asapman, Apr 20, 2015.
think about baseball lol
It's all in how it's handled. Long and slow and alternating between rimming and sucking, licking. I like to take my time with a man so that he stays hard longer.
Lol but I hate baseball
asapman, here's one for you:
This business man had been away from home for over a week and was starting to get horny. One of his friends told him where a whore house was, so the man goes there to get laid. When he asked the madam of the house how much for a fuck she said $200 ... the guy shakes his head and walks out. The next week, though, this guy is really getting horny so he goes back to the whorehouse with $200 in hand. The whore leads him up to the room and they start getting undressed. As she is turning around to face him, she see's him in the corner jerking off. The girl says "what are you doing ... don't do that!" ... and the guy says, "bitch, I just paid $200 to fuck you tonight, you don't think you're going to get the EASY ONE do you?"
What you need is a "visual" ... just keep this in your mind each time you start to cum ...
Even for graphics, that's just too disgusting to imagine!
Why? She`s a hot woman, isn`t she?
I take like two hour jerk off sessions. It helps to build stamina even though I didn't start doing it for that reason. Now, as long as it hasn't been a long time, I can last as long as I want. Try it.
asapaman ... ok, I'm done with "funning around"; I sense you might be serious with this question, and its important.
There are logical solutions to PE (premature ejaculations), and since I once had an issue with PE, myself, I've researched this a couple times in my past. There is a wealth of good sources & info available to help you. But, I'll share what I've learned. I'd still encourage you to do some research on your own, and not from forums.
Premature Ejaculation occurs when you ejaculate earlier than you wish to ejaculate ... surprise, surprise! PE is treated in 3 ways:
psycho-therapy - can be expensive and is usually used along with other methods
behavior therapy - the most common and involves mind training and conditioning once the urge to ejac occurs
medical therapy - using drugs, similar to depressant drugs, to delay ejac, but drugs have side effects, such as causing ED (erection dysfunction)
Here's what worked for me: (I know these sound basic knowledge, but you'd be surprised how often guys overlook.)
Foreplay-isn't golfing terminology. Its stimulating a female to ready her for intercourse. If she's not soaking wet inside, her vagina's going to act like a hand and simply jerk you off rather fast. Oral & finger stimulate your lady to a couple orgasms during foreplay, and get familiar with her many erotic zones other than around her vagina.
Once intercourse starts, start slowly, and continue focusing on her orgasm, not yours or the feeling of your dick inside her.
You'll probably notice a few sexual positions that are less likely to make you cum early; use them if necessary. Mine is girl-on-top ... heck, I can go for an hour if a girl is riding me ... LOL!
Once you get that feeling that you are going to cum, take your thumb & index/middle fingers and squeeze your cock at the base rather hard for a few seconds ... this can delay ejaculation for a few more minutes. Do this as often as you feel needed; eventually you'll find that you won't need to do this as often.
Also the "start-stop-withdraw" method works great ... just pull out and return to oral/finger stimulations for a while.
If you're using condoms (god forbid) you can also use delay salves, but don't use 'em if you're going bareback ...
Guys don't like to admit when they have PE problems, but its critical to resolve the issue or your ladies will talk as much about that as with your having a small dick ... you have your reputation to protect here.
It's always the toughest when you're with some NEW pussy ... and you want to be invited back for 2nds, 3rds and more.
Hope something I mentioned here helps you, too! We're not all invincible studs like some like to brag about here. We actually have to put forth an effort.
It's tough. I do not think the long masturbation advice works. In my experience it's quite the opposite.
When I avoid porn and avoid touching myself, over time -- weeks and months -- my stamina, recovery and hardness shoot through the roof (no pun intended).
I also practice yoga daily. During yoga practice one is taught to maintain control over what are called bandhas, or locks.
Imagine you have to go to the bathroom. Use the same muscles you would to prevent peeing on yourself. a yogi keeps those active throughout the entire process. That has improved my stamina and willpower immensely; combined with avoiding porn/ejaculation, at times I can last as long as I want.
I feel like most of it is genetic, though. I find it difficult to jackhammer away and hold off on cumming for long; I don't think that's realistic. But if I'm fucking rhythmically, switching the pace? I can last for a very long time.
But it depends and is often unpredictable. Most of the time I am great and the woman is immensely pleased. But every now and then it's just not up to par.
So be it. We're human and this isn't a porno. Hell, more times than not that, when I really get going, the woman taps out after a few orgasms because she's too sore to continue.
My approach has a bit of a different twist. If I am meeting up with a wife/couple I will make sure not to cum/masturbate a good 48 hours before the meet but will be sure to watch some terrific porn and have a number of hot chats with lovers (and potential lovers) and generally through all the constant and periodic hard ons throughout that 48 hour period (without having cum) I will have both a powerful and voluminous load ready and a cock primed for fuck. For whatever physiological reason, throughout my active sex life (since age 14) I have always been able to determine when I am going to cum and give the command. So, a long and hard fuck is ready and waiting for the wife/couple.
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