asapaman ... ok, I'm done with
"funning around"; I sense you might be serious with this question, and its important.
There are logical solutions to PE (premature ejaculations), and since I once had an issue with PE, myself, I've researched this a couple times in my past. There is a wealth of good sources & info available to help you. But, I'll share what I've learned. I'd still encourage you to do some research on your own, and not from forums.
Premature Ejaculation occurs when you ejaculate
earlier than you wish to ejaculate ... surprise, surprise! PE is treated in 3 ways:
- psycho-therapy - can be expensive and is usually used along with other methods
- behavior therapy - the most common and involves mind training and conditioning once the urge to ejac occurs
- medical therapy - using *******, similar to depressant *******, to delay ejac, but ******* have side effects, such as causing ED (erection dysfunction)
Here's what worked
for me: (I know these sound basic knowledge, but you'd be surprised how often guys overlook.)
- Foreplay-isn't golfing terminology. Its stimulating a female to ready her for intercourse. If she's not soaking wet inside, her vagina's going to act like a hand and simply jerk you off rather fast. Oral & finger stimulate your lady to a couple orgasms during foreplay, and get familiar with her many erotic zones other than around her vagina.
- Once intercourse starts, start slowly, and continue focusing on her orgasm, not yours or the feeling of your dick inside her.
- You'll probably notice a few sexual positions that are less likely to make you cum early; use them if necessary. Mine is girl-on-top ... heck, I can go for an hour if a girl is riding me ... LOL!
- Once you get that feeling that you are going to cum, take your thumb & index/middle fingers and squeeze your cock at the base rather hard for a few seconds ... this can delay ejaculation for a few more minutes. Do this as often as you feel needed; eventually you'll find that you won't need to do this as often.
- Also the "start-stop-withdraw" method works great ... just pull out and return to oral/finger stimulations for a while.
- If you're using condoms (god forbid) you can also use delay salves, but don't use 'em if you're going bareback ...
Guys don't like to admit when they have PE problems, but its critical to resolve the issue or your ladies will talk as much about that as with your having a small dick ... you have your reputation to protect here.
It's always the toughest when you're with some NEW pussy ... and you want to be invited back for 2nds, 3rds and more.
Hope something I mentioned here helps you, too! We're not all
invincible studs like
some like to brag about here. We actually have to put forth an effort.
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