How to get wife to go further....

Funday69 said:
Hello all. New to the site!

A few months ago I informed my wife of my fantasy of watching/sharing her with a bbc. She didn't question it to much... slightly took her by surprise is really all it was. She said she'll entertain my fantasy we bought to black dildos one being approximately 7in long 1.5in in diameter(about my size) and another 7.5in long 2in diameter.

We have used them a handful of times when she's really turned on and she will begin to verbalize the fantasy, saying "you like watching me take that big black dick" or "I love fucking this big black cock" and whenever we are using the toys she always drags my head down to her clit so I can eat her pussy while I fuck her with the toy.... which is actually the biggest turn on for me nothing gets me harder. But the only thing I want is for it to be more frequent! Like I said prior it's only been a handful of times but when she goes for it... she goes ALL IN. I would like to use them more often than not but I don't want to weird her out by always asking to use them. I want HER to want to use them... which down the road.... may lead to the real thing?.... I just would like to know if anyone has been in this spot, has any tips or guidance.
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Tips: do not ******* this...if you constantly bring it into the bedroom she may tire of it. Try doing it on occasion. Also see if you can weave it into other sexual activities, like watching porn. Get an understanding of what her fantasies are not just yours. Pleasing her may open a door for u.
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
But perhaps she wants both of you to be the same. You're not alone in this and your desires alone cannot govern your relationship. Perhaps one reason for her being reluctant? 🤔
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I agree. I'm being patient or trying to. she will ultimately dictate. I understand that. I just want to remind her I'm more than comfortable with sleeping with bulls.
 
Hey man good luck to you guys. I feel like my wife and I are just past where you are. We both recognize it and fantasize during sex. As everyone says, communication is so important. Let her know how much it turns you on. Took a while for me to really tell her but I’m so glad I did. Idk if we’ll ever actually do it, but just being open and honest is a way better life than if I hadn’t
 
Suddenlyslutty said:
Hey man good luck to you guys. I feel like my wife and I are just past where you are. We both recognize it and fantasize during sex. As everyone says, communication is so important. Let her know how much it turns you on. Took a while for me to really tell her but I’m so glad I did. Idk if we’ll ever actually do it, but just being open and honest is a way better life than if I hadn’t
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Same here man
 
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