How to get wife interested

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Kermit, Aug 1, 2015.

  1. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    hi was just wondering what people say about this I think I want my wife to have black cock more than her she talks to blacks and as skyped with some but she still doesn't seem to be into it as she makes out what should I do
     
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  2. Newguy21

    Newguy21 Active Member

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    If she skyping wit um .. I'm sure she getting it beat up and maybe just not gonna tell ya?.... Women do some shady shit to get BBC specially after the first time
     
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  3. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Nope been on Skype with her and seen all the messages she put to them I have to convince her to talk to them sometimes thanks for the reply though
     
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  4. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    No one else gonna help me out should I forget the idea?
     
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  5. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    Care to discuss situation I have similar prob here

    Vin
     
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  6. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Well she watches interracial porn talks to black guys has skyped a couple of times but when she first went on Skype and saw a bbc I thought she would of been hooked there and then but she didn't Skype for weeks after that I left her to do it herself se how she got on but I felt like I had to keep telling her she needs to do more to keep me interested in it as well there were loads of times I thought she would of sneakily gone on Skype while I was a sleep or fucked her big black dildo in secret the thought of catching her drove me wild but it seems like she just does it with me when I bring it up
     
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  7. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    I have similar prob. However we have introduced dildo on occasion. And talk about it be open bit don't go on all the while.
    do u have messenger???
     
  8. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    No sorry I just talk on here
     
  9. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    Ok np....do daft things let's say if ur watching a film or TV with a black in .guy..Make a comment. ..about him..get her opinion...mayb watch some porn .
    We roleplay in bed
     
  10. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    When we gonna chat kitty
     
  11. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Tried all that it works abit lol
     
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  12. Kitty69

    Kitty69 Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Sorry only chat to black Bulls
     
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  13. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    Same here...have u told her why u want it
     
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  14. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Yea she says she wants it to women lol
     
  15. Natalia Foster

    Natalia Foster Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    From a woman's perspective...(in a marriage of 22 years that has invited black guys off and on over the years)

    Do you know why Black Guys turns her on? Skin color, body type, something different, being naughty, the excitement of it all, cock size? Start with emphasizing those things into your dialogue.
    1. What's really holding her back? You, her, the kids?
    2. Maybe she only does it because it turns YOU on so much...and that turns her on?
    3. Maybe it makes her feel guilty when she wants to Skype/chat on her own? (feels like she's cheating)
    4. Maybe she's not comfortable showing emotion and passion towards another person with you around. Until she can be comfortable with your reactions to her reactions, this will never be a pleasurable experience for her.
    5. Are you pushing her too fast? Going slow is the best thing...and be careful not to slam on the brakes when she wants to go a bit further than you. :)
    6. If you are not completely trusting of eachother and understand eachother's expectations, then this sort of lifestyle can drive you apart pretty quickly.

    OK. Nuff said. Hope this helps.
    Natalia
     
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  16. Mrs.InCharge

    Mrs.InCharge Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Maybe she knows it's YOUR fantasy and she's just going along to make you happy? Trust me. If she wanted a black lover, she'd find one. Maybe your luckier than you know. Enjoy the fantasy and work on making it enjoyable for her too.
     
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  17. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Thank you very much for your replies maybe I should slow down and wait it did start of as my fantasy and over time she grew on it I do think she does care about me a lot and she does hold back so our relationship doesn't get wrecked but if I go slow and leave her to do things on her own it will never happen and does make me think she is just doing it for me yet she fantasies about me watching her with her bull getting dominated if she was ready for the real thing I would of thought she would be talking and skyping more and using her black toys any chance she gets I do know I have always had a higher sex drive then her and it is a issue but she has been a lot Hornier lately and she likes it when I get involled more
     
  18. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    If you need to keep telling your wife to talk to blacks and she don't go on Skype unless you bring it up yet she still says she wants black cock what are you suppose to do
     
  19. Kermit

    Kermit New Member

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    Decided to forget the idea I am waisting my time she with never be a black cock slut thanks for the replies
     
  20. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Maybe she is happy with what she is getting, a lot of women are. Take it as a compliment and leave the fantasy as a fantasy.