When we first began meeting with BBC 7 yrs ago, after our first we sort of got addicted to us, both of us, and it became quite regular, every 2 to 3 weeks, sometimes meeting new BBC via Fabswingers/AFF, or meeting previous BBC again. then we met a local BBC who told us his wife knew about what he was doing but because they had a baby needing specialist care she did not want to do it but excepted he did and was happy with it, over a matter of weeks he was visiting mrs inked several times a week, whether i was there or not, and we became close friends all of us even going away to portugal for a holiday together, we introduced him to family and friends as just our friend, in this period of our journey we did not meet other BBC, until one night he turned up with a cousin that was visiting from Kenya and they both used her overnight, this became a semi regular event until he had to move away due to work commitments, and things sort of slowed up then!