That's good...... would love to help you with it!I've definitely thought that, my boyfriend and I could just say he's infertile and we'll use sperm donation from a clinic, I have informed myself, where I live (Texas) the matter is completely anonymous, they do not even tell you what race the sperm is they are giving you is, they only assure you that it is a healthy man's sperm, so that could be our alibi