I think there is a difference between the humiliation aspect of sucking a dick, vs. something that you would want to do alone with another man, no female partner involved. You can find the cuckold element of homosexual activity arousing, but not the isolated aspect of the homosexual act.I have to admit that if I've spent time in chastity leading up to us meeting with my wife's bull I'd probably submit to him if requested to.
I have started to find myself getting curious about bbc over the past 12 months or so, but at the moment I'm still 100% straight with the exception of cleaning my wife once her bull has finished.
Same here. Its actually exciting because I don't want to do it, that is the real turn on, having no control.I think for me it's a mixture of submission and humiliation that excites me.
Yeah, that is the aspect that makes me a bbc cuck, another white guy can pound sand LOL. Its complicated.Exactly how I feel, but I would never submit to any other guy than a bbc.
BBC seem to come with power and dominance and I love knowing if he told me to get on my knees and suck I would without argument.
yes, that's the impression I get too. I think society and also received ideas have something to do with it, especially for people who are interested in their image in the eyes of society.I would say bisexuality is a lot more common than it seems with many people just in denial about it.
well said. a distinction not to be overlookedI think there is a difference between the humiliation aspect of sucking a dick, vs. something that you would want to do alone with another man, no female partner involved. You can find the cuckold element of homosexual activity arousing, but not the isolated aspect of the homosexual act.
Do you find the same pleasure if you play alone with a BBC? If so, it may be your bi side, if not, it's more your CUCK side.Yeah, that is the aspect that makes me a bbc cuck, another white guy can pound sand LOL. Its complicated.
the spectrum idea is very interresting, it can go from 100/100 straight to 100/100 gay . but the question remains : how many are called straight but in reality have bi tendency , either denied or assumed .Perhaps this is a spectrum thing .
In case some of my critics here are thinking that I (as an MD and a sexologist) am talking off the top of my head on the matter of Homosexuality and its origins and manifestations and ubiquity, here are some link-references to excellent research done on the subjects at issue in my above post:Think back to your adolescence and you may well find that (like me) you were physically attracted to an especially handsome and spunky schoolboy, perhaps one more advanced in his physical development than you were.
Whether he and you sex-played together physically or not is immaterial, it’s the attraction that tells one that our choice of love-object is very fluid during that hormonally stormy time of our life; and that attraction, whether consummated physically or not, frequently forms the nidus of the living-out of homosexual or bisexual urges later on.
I, among countless other young men, can vouch for it.
So-called “straight” men usually flatly deny having had any sexual attraction, at any time in their lives, to even the most beautiful of young men.
Repression (à la Freud) unfortunately has a way of kicking in and unhelpfully numbing memories of many salutory and life-giving human impulses, including sexual ones, that every young human being is subject to.
Freud, again, identified societal taboos as being a, if not the, prime cause of repression of sexual impulses, and there are many examples of that (including some explicitly expressed on this forum) especially in respect of homosexuality and the acting-out of that by men.
If anybody here doubts me on this, perhaps they could test their reaction—or highly unlikely total lack of one—to this video of a well-grown well-oiled 18-year-old arguably beautiful bisexual buddy of mine in our shower-cubicle.
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Not physically attracted in the same sense. Perhaps its just semantic. I enjoyed playing doctor to no end so I think some of what you are saying is true, but... we cannot assume its just socialization that changes this. Perhaps its a normal phase in the maturation process. Now, this video does nothing for me.Think back to your adolescence and you may well find that (like me) you were physically attracted to an especially handsome and spunky schoolboy, perhaps one more advanced in his physical development than you were.
Whether he and you sex-played together physically or not is immaterial, it’s the attraction that tells one that our choice of love-object is very fluid during that hormonally stormy time of our life; and that attraction, whether consummated physically or not, frequently forms the nidus of the living-out of homosexual or bisexual urges later on.
I, among countless other young men, can vouch for it.
So-called “straight” men usually flatly deny having had any sexual attraction, at any time in their lives, to even the most beautiful of young men.
Repression (à la Freud) unfortunately has a way of kicking in and unhelpfully numbing memories of many salutory and life-giving human impulses, including sexual ones, that every young human being is subject to.
Freud, again, identified societal taboos as being a, if not the, prime cause of repression of sexual impulses, and there are many examples of that (including some explicitly expressed on this forum) especially in respect of homosexuality and the acting-out of that by men.
If anybody here doubts me on this, perhaps they could test their reaction—or highly unlikely total lack of one—to this video of a well-grown well-oiled 18-year-old arguably beautiful bisexual buddy of mine in our shower-cubicle.
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No offence intended Usack, but “perhaps just semantic” isn’t a persuasive notion in the present context. It’s simpy an overused quasi-intellectual ruse to get out of properly arguing the point.Not physically attracted in the same sense. Perhaps its just semantic. I enjoyed playing doctor to no end so I think some of what you are saying is true, but... we cannot assume its just socialization that changes this. Perhaps its a normal phase in the maturation process. Now, this video does nothing for me.
Same for me.I think for me it's a mixture of submission and humiliation that excites me.