I love that pic.
How I Crossed over from Viewing to Doing
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Now that I am retired I have more time to tell a bit more about the circumstances surrounding the various photo shoots. I had recently moved into her house. She had purchased it with her half of the sale of her old house she and her ex had bought when they got married. It was a small bungalow built in the 40 s. Since I was in construction I started remodeling it for her and began in the bedroom by putting some wood paneling on one wall, new paint, new carpet and mirror on the door. After the carpeting had been installed I talked her into posing for me in a sexy sweater, suspender and hose. This was only the second session and she was still a bit shy. She finally took off the sweater and bared all in the last shot. Still one of my favorites. The beginning of hundreds of more photos and eventually videos. I had not yet broached the subject of her becoming a Hotwife. Later I used these to convince men she was worthy of having them join us in the bedroom
When you met and married her you won the hotwife lottery
I have written about most of our memorable experiences with others. Sometimes comments and questions from people trigger memories for me. Feel free to ask any questions you may have about us, individually or as a couple. After every thing I have posted about our private lives I don't think you can offend me with anything you may ask. On our first few trysts I was just happy if it happened at all. When I tried to get her to wear extra sexy clothing, lingerie or makeup she was still too nervous or insecure about her own desirability to do it. I did not push the issue because I didn't want her to cancel the evening. Looking back I think she may have thought I was insinuating she wasn't sexy enough to be attractive to other men. As she gained more experience and confidence in her own sexuality she slowly started to dress more provocatively including lingerie and make up. On this evening we had invited our first friend Mike, over for a second time with us. You can read about his first time with us on page two in this thread. Since we all knew what was going to happen I asked her to really make herself look extra hot and for the first time she obliged. Extra makeup including false eyelashes which she seldom wore, french bra and sexy sweater and hose. We had a large swimming pool and the chlorine was starting to give her black hair a deep red tint she did not like and she had it lightened. You can see the different look in these photos. We had a great meal at our house with her sexy look left no doubt about what was for desert 
3 more from that set of pics with her eyelashes and hose and black thong. It was winter and we had been on vacation in the Caribbean a few weeks earlier. Her tan was fading but I guess she just wore one suit as her tan lines are quite distinctive. In the summer when she wears lots of different suits she gets more tan all over. She thought she was getting fat and grabbed bunny to cover up. When I asked her to put it down she used her arms to try and cover a bit, LOL Not fat to me
Love those nips. Always lovely
- Before I got her to look at Gallery & Hustler amateur sections she would usually just let me take one shot. When we started talking about how sexy it would be to send pics into the magazines she began to actually pose in a more sexy way.
At that stage of introducing her into the Hotwife lifestyle I was still trying to get her to feel more comfortable in her own sexuality. Just getting her to open up and be aggressive in her posing was a small step for us. I did not want to put too much pressure on her by trying to ******* her to let me submit photos to the magazines. There were still times when she would get cold feet about inviting another man to have sex with her. I know it is hard to imagine when years later she was willing to do 2 or 3 men, BBC, even be a stripper at a friend's bachelor party, It was one step at a time. The last shot was meant to Hustle Mag
Posted this on different thread. Should have put it here.
I showed her Hustler magazine amateur photo section, I think it was called Beaver Shot or some title with the word beaver in it. That evening she posed for these pics. I told her to turn the bottom of her basque up on the last shot to expose more of her pussy.
I showed her Hustler magazine amateur photo section, I think it was called Beaver Shot or some title with the word beaver in it. That evening she posed for these pics. I told her to turn the bottom of her basque up on the last shot to expose more of her pussy.
As hard as it may be to believe Elaine was sexually conservative and a bit shy when we first started dating. We were both divorced. She had been in two monogamous relationships in the four years after her divorce. I had done some swinging and swapping with my first wife and had been a bull with a few other couples after my divorce. After a few months I really started developing feelings for her. Deep in my soul or brain I knew I would never be happy in a traditional marriage so I wanted to convince her into the lifestyle without forsing her away from me or have her think I was a sexual deviant. After all the wild and kinky things we later did over 30 years it seems hard to believe that I thought it was a step forward if I could talk her into posing nude for me and then get her to pose for pics that I told her we were going to send to Gallery. In this series I said show whatever you feel comfortable with possibly revealing to other men. 
I guess that is why it is always a great memory for me. Will show the series instead of just one at a time.
I guess that is why it is always a great memory for me. Will show the series instead of just one at a time.
Hard to believe she went from such a young innocent wife to entertaining our
friends
friends
After a few years we started having FWB and by that I truly mean a friend. We enjoyed the sex with the other men even if we never saw them again. Some guys were friendly and we liked them but they lacked something in the sex department. Elaine would use them as a sex toy and enjoy them for the night but not invite them back. Most men asked or hinted at being invited back and we always said "We will see or maybe" then later the two of us would discuss possible return engagement. Over the years we found several men we both liked in and out of bed. One guy would even bring a date over to our house for a cocktail or swim in the pool and no sex but it was nice to know we could call him up and have a great evening without having any worries about whether or not they would show or in someway not be satisfactory. Neither of us ever had a jealousy issue at all. My wife always liked to play with a dildo or vibrator and watch porn when we were alone. I thought of the other men fucking her as a dildo or vibrator with a man attached, LOL
Elaine married her high school sweetheart when she was 18 and had dated him since 15. She said they only had oral sex. Today that seems tame, but in the 60s the sexual revolution was just beginning. After graduating from college she became a grade school teacher and she and hubby bought a small house. He had a job as a salesman for a brick company and they thought all was blissful. Soon divorced, but remained friends. I had gone to university and did a lot of wild partying with lots of girls. I married after graduating and divorced 9 years later. When I started having feelings for Elaine I told myself I was not going to marry until I was sure we were sexually compatible. Elaine had had two relationships before we hooked up, but had led a relatively straight sex life. She was great in bed, but had never done two men before. She said she never even thought of it. I was the one pushing the issue and it took over a year to make it happen, Once she realized I was not going to be jealous she opened up and became more willing to do most of the things I asked. As I look back at the past 30 years I was the one always pushing the limits and she slowly loosened up and let me lead the way. Ask anything, no matter how personal. She was using an IUD and she let guys go bareback in the beginning. We quickly started using condoms as we became more daring with the men we choose. She would usually let a man climax where ever he wanted. Had a great ability to swallow while keeping your cock in her mouth after you shot off. I encouraged her to go braless and wear revealing clothes. Hard to believe by the time she was in her 50 she would flash her pussy in public when the mood was right. One of my fetishes is lingerie, suspenders and hose and she willingly obliged me with many different outfits over the years. I thought I would make a post sometime of all the sexy clothes she wore for sex but am afraid it would get too large
Here is one of the first photos she let me take topless. She was 29. Second one she is probably 50 and not shy at all
Here is one of the first photos she let me take topless. She was 29. Second one she is probably 50 and not shy at all
- I bought a 35 mm film camera and it was like starting over for my wife. When I told her we would have to mail the film off to be developed she became conservative with her poses. I think this was the first set of photos I took. It was an adjustment for me too as I was used to instant gratification with the Polaroid. Now I was going to have to wait until I had shot all the exposures and wait while it was mailed off and returned. I shot the entire roll the first time creating too many views of basically the same setting and lingerie. With the old Poaroid she would do a slow strip or show whatever we were in the mood for. I was always excited when I saw the yellow cardboard envelope in the mailbox. I won't bore you with all the shots but here are some of the better ones. She finally took off her panties and let me shoot her ass and pulled the top down a bit closer to showing her nipples
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I just found several pics from my 50th surprise birthday party. Elaine handed out a bunch of cheap disposable cameras and asked the guests to take pictures of anyone they wanted and give us the cameras at the end of the evening. She then had them developed and we had quite a collection of candid photos to remember my birthday. She knew almost all the people but I had invited a couple old friends from college. They did not live real close so I doubted they would show. I introduced my wife to Joe and let her introduce him to a few others. When I looked at the pics later I noticed Joe was really paying attention to my wife and showed her this pic. I asked Elaine what she thought about him. She said he was a friendly guy and maybe we should try to hook up with him. Wonder what he is looking at? Elaine seldom wears a bra and likes front opening tops. She can "accidentally" let a button come undone or lower the zipper a bit if she wants to flirt. He did not live in our city but was less than an hour away. Elaine had everyone's address from sending out invitations to the party. These are pics from the party. Elaine seems to have no trouble attracting mens attention. Joe is looking down her blouse in the first pic and another friend his getting an eyeful while she is sitting on his lap
Over the years my wife had gained confidence and I always encouraged her to be on the lookout for a guy she might want to fuck. I told her only she knew which men she thought looked and acted like she might wanted to invite them to our bed. She knew she had my blessing to fool around a bit without me being there to see if there might be a bit of chemistry 
When we got home I asked her if she thought we should try to hook up with him. She grinned and said definitely. She had taken him into a storage area and kissed and fondled his cock and let him play with her boobs for a minute before hearing people outside the door. She said he was starting to get an erection and he felt quite large. I asked her if she said anything to him about 3 way sex and she said no because they had to quickly leave the area they were in and go back in the main dining and drinking room. We decided to try and hook up with him so I sent him the pic from the party where he was looking down at her tits and I wrote "I noticed you glancing at my wife's tits while enjoying a beer with her. If you want to share some wine with us and then share my wife please call or write." I also added this photo
When we got home I asked her if she thought we should try to hook up with him. She grinned and said definitely. She had taken him into a storage area and kissed and fondled his cock and let him play with her boobs for a minute before hearing people outside the door. She said he was starting to get an erection and he felt quite large. I asked her if she said anything to him about 3 way sex and she said no because they had to quickly leave the area they were in and go back in the main dining and drinking room. We decided to try and hook up with him so I sent him the pic from the party where he was looking down at her tits and I wrote "I noticed you glancing at my wife's tits while enjoying a beer with her. If you want to share some wine with us and then share my wife please call or write." I also added this photo
I have but prefer sloppy seconds
