re: How do i get him to be a cuck?
.....A married man becomes a cuck
when his wife has sex with other men ... period. As to whether he knows he's been cucked is pretty much up to you. Cuckolding is just a slang word for cheating and infidelity. Lots of men are cucks and don't even know it.
.....If you prefer your husband to give you permission (which is wise as well as courteous of you), he's already given you the way to ask him ... he's looking at photos and movies of wives with black men and jerking off. You simply ask him if that seriously turns him on and if he'd like for you to do it ... if he gives you grief, you have his porn to 'call him out' ... so, take advantage of what you already know and simply ask him. You have the advantage! Besides, a wife's responsibility to her husband is to
"keep him happy" ... just say that.
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MacNFries, you are fighting a loosing battle to preserve the the definitions of Shakespearean English against inevitable etymological evolution. The word
cuckold was on its way to obscurity before this fetish resurrected it with a new connotation. New connotations often lead to redefinition.
Do you want to push back on the multitude of other words whose definitions the Bard would not recognize.
Nice once meant foolish,
silly previously denoted worthy or blessed, and
awful formerly implied worthy of awe.
True, Webster has yet to recognize this change - but within the kink community,
cuckolding has already been redefined. As a separate forum in B2W,
cuckolding almost certainly has the predominate connotation of a wife having sex with men other than her husband with his knowledge and at least partial acceptance. The more traditionally accurate word
wittol just has not caught on and most likely will not.
I would go even further to say that the
cuckolding is
generally becoming accepted by those within this fetish as implying some form of sexual D/s or humiliation, while
hot-wifeing implies a more equatable power balance. I'll admit this last differentiation is still in evolution and that
cuckolding retains some of its more expansive usage as Don Dune above uses the word to cover the first five years of his wife's infidelity. The fact is that he would probably not be using the word if he had not eventually become a willing
cuck. He would just say he was cheated on.
Cuckold has traditionally had a humiliating connotation and it will likely continue to to be used when a cheating wife takes pleasure in the power she establishes by cheating without her husband's knowledge.
Eventually I believe, Webster will recognize this new definition of cuckolding. The alt and far right resurrection of this word, albeit with their own new non-literal connotation may slow or prevent this from becoming the primary definition. For now I believe it is pretty clear that OPS' question was clearly "how do I get my husband to acquiesce to my having sex with others and most likely do so in a submissive manner in the bedroom at least.
Google the word Cuckolding in the news and almost all the stories talk about a willing husband who is generally faithful to his wife. Newsrooms
have pretty much adopted this use of the word already.
. I recently caught him watching interracial porn so I know he's into it but I want to push the limit and find out how much. Advice, comments guys and especially from the girls who have dealt with this same dilemma.
