In our 15 years of experience, we've learned that anything worth having is worth practicing precaution. We like to meet, screen and decide if it's going to be a short term or long-term engagement. We request,3 months of testing. We also get tested so that everyone is on the same page.
From that point,it depends on how the relationship develops. If everything goes, great ,it's BAREBACK ALL THE WAY, with whatever moods hits, HE CAN LEAVE IT IN OR PULL OUT. Although we do exercise extreme precaution to prevent pregnancy.
With that being said we've only played with 2 single males bareback, one 6 years, the other current. We do not play bareback with anyone else but him! Same we've agreed to the same guidelines. He lives in the area, has a key, I (wife) have a key to his place.