Helping wife get over guilty feelings

[Nickhotrod]

Let her know you are proud of her and thats all taht matters. IF anyone finds out you take the blame . Discretion always good . But in teh end if positive for you thats all that matters if you all agreed.

Is that what you told your wife after?

 

[Nickhotrod]

What would your wife think of her parents if she found out about their kinks? Theres a reason we do stuff behind closed doors and don't share it with family and friends.

 

[Nickhotrod]

They would think she's a BBC slut they way she is what else lol

 

[Nickhotrod]

You don't get over them. You just deal with them.

Deal with them? What do you think about when sucking BBC and getting pounded?

 

[Nickhotrod]

Hi everyone. She is doing much better with it. The 4 steps we took:
1. Talk. Let her talk about her feelings and I just listened. She has to get the feelings out.
2. Time. Take your time. Don't expect this to change in a week, month, etc. Pushing from the husband will only make it worse.
3. Test. After talk and time have helped, then test it a bit. Bring it back into role playing. Use the dildo again and get her excited about the scenarios. If she has a positive response then you can talk again and see how she fees about trying it again.
4. If she feels she wants to try it again, reach back out to a trusted partner she played with in the past. Do not go for a new partner. She has to have a safe and very good experience.

We have followed all 4 steps and she recently played with an old partner (twice now) and still has some mixed feelings, but we talk about them. Communication is the key.

She will do much better after getting more BBC The more the better

 

[Nickhotrod]

You just have to support her and reassure her that her being a slut is perfectly normal, I found out years ago that the more black guys that fucked her the better she felt, yes she does feel guilty occasionally and maybe shamed when a lot of guys screw her but sluts cannot change.

I agree keep fucking BBC the more the better

 

[Nickhotrod]

With me it’s more like hubby getting over guilty feelings.

Yes I agree watching BBC fucking your brains out while he's in the corner looking at his little dick an not even a man like your BBC is

 

[Nickhotrod]

Hell y

At first maybe but that new feeling inside her amd her desire to go back makes her forget the remorse

 

[CuriousWhite]

We have been in the lifestyle for nearly 18 years on and off and I can tell you we experienced almost exactly the same thing about 8 years ago Mandy just stopped she became terrified the ******* would find out dispute us being ultra discreet. There was a fair bit of guilt and soul searching but we still used our experiences in our sex life having fun with it but in a more fantasy and memories based way than full on participating with others. But about 2 to 3 years ago after ******* had fled the nest we both became eager to start getting into the life again more Mandy than me if I’m honest. So to cut a long story short Mandy has been seeing a Bull for two years now and apart from lockdown we are all fully enjoying this special life again more than ever. So I hope this can give you hope that it may be an evolution rather than an end. Brian

This sounds wonderful! I hope this type of thing can happen with my wife and I one day. I know she will love it and she totally deserves this.

 

[Mandy and Brian]

mandy is fucking hot

Yes she is