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Helping wife get over guilty feelings
- Thread starter Ted Davidson
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. Discretion always good . But in teh end if positive for you thats all that matters if you all agreed.Maybe she just needs a break from the lifestyle and reassurance that you still love her 100%. 7 years is quite a long time though. Maybe something has come up or popped into her mind that has spooked her. Like you say, communication and no pressure is the best route to take. With society really advocating for LGBTQ+ rights these days and porn being everywhere, I don't think anyone truly cares about people's private sex lives all that much.
As you say she wonders what family and friends would think of her. Maybe that's her concern and you could reassure her that you would be utterly discrete all the time. There is a lot of slut shaming in society. I think as a cuck it's important to make the wife feel totally comfortable. She should feel she can trust her cuck hubby at all times and also the third part. Good luck, cuck! 
I agree with Report, maybe she just needs a break. I will say my wife she still feels some guilt every time we play with another man. She says she knows I am excited by it and so is she, etc, but she just feels a bit of guilt and shame. Like she is a slut. Sometimes that may not go away and you are right, your wife may never go back to those pre-covid sharing times
You have your memories to get you through it, even if she doesn't want to continue. At least you have seen a black man fuck your wife.
We have been in the lifestyle for nearly 18 years on and off and I can tell you we experienced almost exactly the same thing about 8 years ago Mandy just stopped she became terrified the ******* would find out dispute us being ultra discreet. There was a fair bit of guilt and soul searching but we still used our experiences in our sex life having fun with it but in a more fantasy and memories based way than full on participating with others. But about 2 to 3 years ago after ******* had fled the nest we both became eager to start getting into the life again more Mandy than me if I’m honest. So to cut a long story short Mandy has been seeing a Bull for two years now and apart from lockdown we are all fully enjoying this special life again more than ever. So I hope this can give you hope that it may be an evolution rather than an end. Brian
CoupleNewToIt
Couple
We've not faced that, but you are a very wise, loving man who considers his wife above all else!! Congrats to you both
CoupleNewToIt
Couple
You are a very wise and loving husband! You consider your wife over all else!!!!
Nickhotrod
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Once you black never go back
Sexual attraction and desire is a natural instinct beyond conscious control. There is no need for shame or guilt in preferring the color blue over red, and the same goes for all natural desires. A marriage that can share sexual attraction and desires, where each can be completely supportive of each other has a solid, strong foundation. A man and woman who completely understand each other to the point of supporting one partner acting on powerful sexual desire, have a genuine love. You are doing exactly the right thing by your wife, in supporting her, and in NOT pressuring her. Best wishes.
CoupleNewToIt
Couple
VERY well said!!
Nickhotrod
Male
Thanks we're are you located
This is not true there are many hypocrites that will shame, degrade and attack others for choices they feel aren't moral or right even though they aren't perfect or want to have the same experiences or do have the same or similar experiences that their so called moral compass sees as wrong or immoral.
Nickhotrod
Male
She's right ******* will get older and family friends might find out and will be thinking nasty things and even might not want to be around you both anymore for being a BBC slutwife
