Thank you,
What stage are you at? If you don't mind me asking? Issue we are having at the moment is we have exhausted the IR porn on XXNX and dogfart network
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Oh sweetie, be careful with porn and IR porn. It can lead you to think things are different than reality. In addition, it may lead you to think cuckold/ir fun should be done this way or that way.
In my fun over the years, things rarely happened like a video or porn script. My first time swinging was not planned or was I set up. Yet, there I was 3 hours into a dinner party, on their living room floor about to let the other husband have sex with me while the other wife was giving my husband a bj!!
So, go at your own pace and your own level of comfort. You don't have to do any of this. If it does not feel right, stop, change things, or something until you are comfortable.
So often the husband is thinking with his little head when he says, "Go without panties on our first meet up with a guy!" Yeah, no, not recommended.
So, take this journey at your pace, establish some rules you both are ok with and follow them.
I can tell you one of the rules my husband and I use. I always come home to him that night. I'm not spending the night a one of my boytoys place. Since he knows I'll always come home, he's way more comfortable with me arranging a meet up.
You are welcome to DM me if you want to ask some questions you are not sure should be in a public forum