When we had our first experience we set a few rules. First, I chose to not be there. Second, we limited the meeting to one hour. There were other agreed upon rules, but these two made our first experience successful. Anyone can ******* an hour even just sitting in their car. When I reclaimed her after her bull left, it was amazing. Her pussy tasted completely different, and although I typically have excellent sexual stamina, I came within minutes of sliding in to her. You can consider a meeting like this an ice breaker. Explain the situation to your bull. Most likely, he will be cool with it, especially if he has experience with couples. Now to be honest, I did freak out a few times over the next few weeks. I still experienced feelings of jealousy and inadequacy. But not enough to squash our desire for her to keep fucking black men. Agree to let it happen one time, and also agree that if it doesn't work for either of you that you will stop. If you can't trust and believe that your partner will not do it again, or not cheat on you then do not do it. The key to this pleasure is 100% trust in your partner. Just my 2 cents.