Has anyone actually met on here?

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Anyone else having a hard time meeting on here? As in a bunch of guys saying, “my wife’s warming up to the idea” or just random profile sending pics and wanting to exchange nudes.
That’s cool and all but I feel like there’s not that many profiles or real people trying meet and have some fun. Maybe it’s just me, but please feel free to share your experiences or tips!
 
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I have been here since 2013 and have met with a handful of real people that I can contribute to this site. I think a lot of guys have unrealistic expectations. Its a lot easier to just go to clubs and bars to find women.

yes there are real women on here. the real ones aren't usually interested in video sexting and they don't normally look the part of the main stream porn industry. In my experience they look like the neighbors bored wife type. I am always shocked at how many of you guys go crazy over the supermodels posted on here... who obviously your never going to meet because they are just pictures ripped from the internet Or.... girls just looking to make a buck off you through onlyfans.

I am mostly a lurker here these days. Its a good play to see some porn and occasionally see something new. Its a good place to read along and work one out, I guess is what Im saying.

If your willing to put in the work there are real people on here but as I said, you have a better chance in real life situations like hotel bars, clubs, dive bars.
 
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We've met a few off here. If we're interested and click we move to snapchat.

The biggest hiccup is most people just don't click. They don't understand the kink, they can't hold a conversation, etc.

We've found this site to be decent. Fetlife is certainly better for meeting folks, but search for locals is just as complicated.
 
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We've met our bull on here. Have to say there are some genuine people, its just a minefield finding them. Being verified doesn't sort out the fakes or bottom feeders either. Again its a pity. Also as mentioned before finding genuine people who can hold a conversation about the lifestyle with out going overboard is getting increasingly difficult. Hope spring eternal. :cool:
 
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757bull said:
Anyone else having a hard time meeting on here? As in a bunch of guys saying, “my wife’s warming up to the idea” or just random profile sending pics and wanting to exchange nudes.
That’s cool and all but I feel like there’s not that many profiles or real people trying meet and have some fun. Maybe it’s just me, but please feel free to share your experiences or tips!
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Sorry you're having a hard time meeting real people on here! I've met several very nice Bull's on here. Had a meeting with a new Bull a couple days ago. There are some flakey people on here though! Lol
 
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DaphnneD said:
We've met our bull on here. Have to say there are some genuine people, its just a minefield finding them. Being verified doesn't sort out the fakes or bottom feeders either. Again its a pity. Also as mentioned before finding genuine people who can hold a conversation about the lifestyle with out going overboard is getting increasingly difficult. Hope spring eternal. :cool:
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When you say overboard what comes to mind? I'm still not new new but learning the aspects of the lifestyle. What comes to mind? This is interesting
 
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757bull said:
Anyone else having a hard time meeting on here? As in a bunch of guys saying, “my wife’s warming up to the idea” or just random profile sending pics and wanting to exchange nudes.
That’s cool and all but I feel like there’s not that many profiles or real people trying meet and have some fun. Maybe it’s just me, but please feel free to share your experiences or tips!
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There are a few helpful threads in the VERIFIED MEMBERS PRIVATE FORUM including a thread where verified members post their success stories...


There is also a thread where Verified people can post bad experiences with flakes or fakes and Warn others



I don't even bother with unverified profiles. I ignore them all
 
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MagicMikeATX said:
There are a few helpful threads in the VERIFIED MEMBERS PRIVATE FORUM including a thread where verified members post their success stories...


There is also a thread where Verified people can post bad experiences with flakes or fakes and Warn others



I don't even bother with unverified profiles. I ignore them all
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My view

Being verified doesn't sort out the fakes or time wasters either. Before our break from this site the amount of times we had "verified" guys doing no shows, disappearing or not bothering to communicate again, the thousand and one excuses as to why they couldn't make it, (My personal favorite was one guy telling us he had to take his wife to the hospital when his profile said single and he assured us he was single) was disappointing to say the least.

We were verified because of people advising that it would increase our chances of meeting a guy. It didn't. Not saying that it was that way for everyone. Just our bad experience with being verified and the amount of time wasters. In the end we found our Bull through a chance message on a thread that caught our eye.

As I said. This is/was our experience with being verified which may differ to others.
 
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Bbc4olderwhte said:
When you say overboard what comes to mind? I'm still not new new but learning the aspects of the lifestyle. What comes to mind? This is interesting
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Hi. Conversations starting off normal, then getting more aggressive about things we clearly stated we were not into. Demanding daily video's Photographs Not showing respect to us about our wishes. Not being able to hold a simple conversation without bringing up all manner of sexual things they wanted to do to us.
 
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DaphnneD said:
Hi. Conversations starting off normal, then getting more aggressive about things we clearly stated we were not into. Demanding daily video's Photographs Not showing respect to us about our wishes. Not being able to hold a simple conversation without bringing up all manner of sexual things they wanted to do to us.
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Got you.. I've been there.. note to self. Never to one to learn. Us black men can be aggressive. Especially when it comes to a hot woman like I'm sure you are. Keep your head up! Separate the wheat from the shaft! Don't get discouraged. Just know guys like myself aim to please and can be any fantasy a couple wants because in the end you are the prize and we're better off for it. I appreciate your response... plus I'll bet being black myself that assholes normally couldn't get women or couples like yourself without.
 
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Bbc4olderwhte said:
Got you.. I've been there.. note to self. Never to one to learn. Us black men can be aggressive. Especially when it comes to a hot woman like I'm sure you are. Keep your head up! Separate the wheat from the shaft! Don't get discouraged. Just know guys like myself aim to please and can be any fantasy a couple wants because in the end you are the prize and we're better off for it. I appreciate your response... plus I'll bet being black myself that assholes normally couldn't get women or couples like yourself without.
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Thanks. It's not the aggressiveness that is the "problem" its more when its used. Two minutes into a conversation can be a little off putting, if you know what I mean. Plus we know all guys are not like that, just the ones we seem to attract :LOL:
 
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DaphnneD said:
My view

Being verified doesn't sort out the fakes or time wasters either. Before our break from this site the amount of times we had "verified" guys doing no shows, disappearing or not bothering to communicate again, the thousand and one excuses as to why they couldn't make it, (My personal favorite was one guy telling us he had to take his wife to the hospital when his profile said single and he assured us he was single) was disappointing to say the least.

We were verified because of people advising that it would increase our chances of meeting a guy. It didn't. Not saying that it was that way for everyone. Just our bad experience with being verified and the amount of time wasters. In the end we found our Bull through a chance message on a thread that caught our eye.

As I said. This is/was our experience with being verified which may differ to others.
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Moin from Hamburg. I just wanted to say keep going your way, make rules for yourself, even verified people may not have been thought about that this is all real.
But its a big problem on this site that some mods not seeing the problem and verfied profiles which are questionable. And older verification, i found one today again, are so funny when you see from today how good it was made but its fake. So maybe make a rule to communicate fast over a cam or so...
Just wanted to say, you two are a great couple, make positive vibes and these kind of people will come into your life :)

and hoop holland hoop :D
 
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